so about two nights ago i had my first orgasm (i think?) idk but i tried this technique i saw on here. usually whenever i try i just stop after a minute or so bc nothing happens. but last time, i just kept going and at first it was the same as always. but then i kinda blacked out- like it was just really pleasent, and then it started like heating up and i felt really tense and my legs started trembling! it felt sooooooo good. i was trying to be quiet though bc my family was sleeping... does this even count as an orgasm? also i didnt cum and i never have before- is there any difference between being wet and cuming? and last thing, i tried this two nights ago, but nothings happening now idk what im doing wrong ANY HELP?? (girl and 14)
Dear Terry
Yes, it sounds as though you have had an orgasm! Also your leg trembling is an indication of an orgasm. There are different types of orgasm, and there is a difference between being wet, vaginal gushing and urethral squirting.
You will react differently at different times, and sometimes techniques need to be varied. However it is difficult so say what you might be doing wrong (if anything) without knowing exactly what you are doing, and how.