Ok so today me and my bf did are makeout sessions like always but today he fingured me. Yesterday was the first time he fingured me but today it hurts more. Rn it feels like it's scarred Idk what it is it just hurts and feels really sore. What does this mean ? Do I have an infected cause I heard your supposed to wash your hands first before inserting. Advice please. Btw my mom can't find out cause it be a huuuge issue