What if you were going out with a person for over 5 months, you both had a good relationship, but he really wanted to explore an open relationship? I mean would you be open to exploring also? I am feeling very stupid about this, how expectable is it in your eyes? In case that sex is boring, would you use that as a way to enhance desires?
I am for monogamy among normal couples for several reasons. Major one is being "safe". If it's the sexual experience with strangers that is being missed and wanted, I see no reason to be in a relationship in the first place. There is the threat of finding someone better, but if that’s the case you weren’t into each other in the first place. I personally would not want a man who has sex with other women for the simple reason that using a condom every time is just a pain. Furthermore if yours sex is boring.....fix it and don’t feel very stupid.