This is a really big misconception. If you have a lot of sex or use dildos a lot, it does not stretch out your vagina. Inside of a vagina, there are vaginal muscles. Think about it: when you use your muscles more, they don't suddenly become looser - that's not the way it works. Virgins tend to feel tighter to men because they are generally nervous (understandably so) since it is their first time. This nervousness makes them tense up just like how if you watch a horror movie and there is a scary atmosphere, your other muscles tend to tense up. So it's basically anxiety that makes you feel tighter. You feel stretched out because you aren't nervous when you use your sex toys, so your muscles aren't contracting. The only thing I've heard of that can stretch a vagina is kids, and even then, the vagina normally heals and goes back to the way it was before after about half a year or so.
Honestly, I would expect that you will feel tighter than you normally feel during your first time having sex. Since it is with another person and you haven't done it before, you are probably going to feel nervous so your muscles will contract more. Don't sweat it. You can keep using toys!
Honestly, I would expect that you will feel tighter than you normally feel during your first time having sex. Since it is with another person and you haven't done it before, you are probably going to feel nervous so your muscles will contract more. Don't sweat it. You can keep using toys!
I do why
i am recently 17 and my boyfriend and I broke up and now we are back together its a really long story, I was using my dildo and when I was done I realised that it su=tung way to much I am a virgin and I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm scared something will be wrong... HELPPPPPP
Wow that's young
Honey,don't worry about your first time. We all freaked out about our first time going bad, and a dildo feels different from a real penis inside you. Use some lotion or lube incase it might hurt,if it does hurt you don't freak out when you and someone get into it that pain turns into pleasure (:
I had sex but the guy didn't go all the way in,I can put two fingers in me now and a hair brush.
Will a dildo help stretch your vag.
And help hurt less for next time??
Please someone answer ): yes or no?
Will a dildo help stretch your vag.
And help hurt less for next time??
Please someone answer ): yes or no?
If the dildo is big enough it will help you get used to taking bigger things in. You can keep getting larger ones to satisfy your wishes. Use plenty of lube.
How didn't feel the next time? I am trying and I'm a virgin but it burns so bad
How old were you when you poped your cherry
How do you know you broke it
LOTS of LUBE... good luck!!!
You would basically see blood like if you were on your period but it would only b a little
use lubricant gel to minimize friction. stimulate clitoris before inserting dildo.
I wanted to "pop my cherry" for the exact same reason and every time i tried it hurt after putting it in like a millimetre, so i looked on here and used your advice ( but to make the vibrator wet used water ) and it worked!
I'm a virgin and I just bought a dildo online yesterday and I can't wait to use it. Im not scared right now because all I can think about is it pounding my p***y. I'm getting wet just thinking about lol.