I had sex with my ex-boyfriend but does not want my future husband to know if I ever had sex because that would ruin my relationship. Can I do something that can help me in not letting my future husband to ever know I had sex before. Its been more than a year now and wonders if I will have pain after having sex with my future husband still or have bleeding too.
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I recommend telling him. If he trusts you to tell him everything honestly you will have a stronger marriage. I know there are things I wanted to conceal to the girl I am about to marry.... but I can tell you the relief you have of knowing your partner knows everything and that their not gonna freak out when they find out which is always possible is the best feeling in the world. I know this isn't the answer you were looking for, I just know this is something I contemplated and was in fear of for months and now I'm engaged with a girl I have loved for 4 years and only finally got to start dating back in may.
Believe me marriage is a life time commitment and it does not stand on sand. First build trustful strong relationship with love affection and very high intensity of sexual relationship (Love is blind and sound proof. It covers all the sin/bad things and did not here anything against). To make healthy and successful marriage life let him (husband) know each and everything of your life bad and good things including sex before marriage.
If you are trying to hide something you will make lot of false stories and you will lose the trust. Once the trust lost life will become horrible and always fighting between each other. Normally girls start hiding her virginity from the day one and her behavior (physical, mental, verbal, emotional ) will showing something is missing between there relation.
Believe me with my experience, marriage turn into divorce when husband knows her wife is not trustful and she had earlier relationship/sex life. You are trying to safe your marriage from divorce build trust from the day one. If your husband wants to break the marriage let it breaks at the beginning instead of after 2 or 3 Childs. You will be more safe if anything goes wrong at the beginning instead of middle of the life, break it at the beginning to go for the another marriage. --P
If you are trying to hide something you will make lot of false stories and you will lose the trust. Once the trust lost life will become horrible and always fighting between each other. Normally girls start hiding her virginity from the day one and her behavior (physical, mental, verbal, emotional ) will showing something is missing between there relation.
Believe me with my experience, marriage turn into divorce when husband knows her wife is not trustful and she had earlier relationship/sex life. You are trying to safe your marriage from divorce build trust from the day one. If your husband wants to break the marriage let it breaks at the beginning instead of after 2 or 3 Childs. You will be more safe if anything goes wrong at the beginning instead of middle of the life, break it at the beginning to go for the another marriage. --P