Hi, I'm 16 years old, I am sexually active but I've only had sex with my boyfriend...no one else. Neither of us has any STDs and use protection 99% of he time. I was just curious about my vaginal swelling and if its normal because even when I masturbate for like a minute and the walls of my vagina get swollen really fast and the lips very little but mostly the Walls of my vagina. Its never really itchy sometimes it burns, I find that it burns when I'm not ''wet''enough while masturbating. But also while having sex, my vagina feels swollen whether our sex is rough or slower.....like every time we have sex. Which makes it iincredibly uncomfortable to sit. It gets so swollen to the point my bf is unable to ''go in'' bc its too swollen also it hurts when he tries...like the opening of my vagina but closer to the inside. I'm never dry when we have sex, but the condoms are well lubricated but I still have the same outcome. And then the swelling takes a matter of hours or days to go away. One time over a week but im guessing from the rough sex. Ever since we've started having sex I've always had this problem and sex is usually a bit painful to be honest like in the opening of my vagina usually hurts when he enters or pulls out (even when he's be gentle and going slow). Anddd... One more thing.. I have moments of random pain in my vagina it random places it can be deep or close to the opening, I think its really weird because I get it even when we Havnt had sex for a week and the swelling is gone. The pain isn't so sudden, it sorta gradually gets to a sharp pain and then its gone. The pain lasts about a few second. If someone can help me figure this out without me having to go to my doctor,(not exactly possible because of parents not knowing) I would really appreciate it.