I kinda know how to do things, being as I helped my best friend through her whole pregnancy when the dad bailed on her. But I am still a bit worried.
But I want to know the risks for myself do to my medical record.
I only have one kidney(the right one). I was born without my left.
I have a loose valve, so when I urinate some gets pushed back up into my kidney, leaving me prone to kidney infections.
I have a lot of arch in my spin that can cause lower back pain.
I am kinda panicked about everything. I want a baby, but i don't know... I guess I have a higher risk of complications. I have talked with my boyfriend about it and he is just as wary as I am. I wont get an abortion unless there is no way the baby could make it too term and live, I would let myself go as long as I know the baby has a chance. He knows that. We are both ready and eager. But I want some other opinions that are not from people directly involved around me, in other words I don't want lectures from family and friends that have something to lose or gain out of this.
Plus there is a chance that I am already pregnant.
I want honest opinions for those who are willing to give them.