We're in Montana. He didn't directly threaten me, but I knew he would hurt himself if I didn't say something. I offered first, and he agreed. I didn't want to, but I didn't want him to hurt himself. Is this rape, or are we both wrong? If it is rape, should I press charges? It was in Nov, 2021.
Yes it was as you were reluctant to have sex and may have felt under pressure
You were too young you should press charges
You were not wrong he was ,you were too young to give your consent
Did he penetrate you?