We had incomplete intercourse, I felt little pain and I didn't bleed

Hello iam 19. i and my boy friend had incomplete sex(as it was not going in) and even i felt little pain but i dint bleed. and my guy says if i dint bleed after marraige he would leave me and previously i use to put my index finger into vagina and wen i try to insert second i was unable to put two fingers it was v.hard. and now iam v.scared to know about my virginity will i bleed after marraige?if i dont please help some one help me to be safe.thankyou.