So, I'm 24 years old and this year I have a boyfriend and have been trying to have sex for the first time. I waited a very long time to haha. but for some reason his penis wont actually fit into my vagina. so the FIRST question is... what can I do to make it easier to try... ive tried lube and calming down and not thinking of the situation kind of thing... question number 2: If he comes with his condom on and its against my vagina can the spurm do something even tho he isn't ALL the way in... I am frustrated that I found the right person and I'm having issues with this... been late a couple months now too when trying... is it because of the whole frustration i am having with this???? lol --- i also have all the same symptoms like PMS that it is coming... but i worry too much about to much of my tummy and such so i feel like my head messes with me lol. any advice pleaseeee
extra note - i was always random too before the boyfriend too with my period. but now that we are messing around i get worried. but ive done this to myself last 4 months and its always came... but im a girl.. you know how it is... haha! just gotta get some advice please.