Whats the best postion for first time anal sex?

The pile driver is the best!

yur right so right, but they say that the forbidden fruit is always sweet so is the anal sex

Thank you to all who replied to this because I had the same question.  I started with fingers and moved up to a toy later...im going to try the real thing very soon and I'm both nervous and excited at the same time.  I've got condoms and lube to surprise my partner with (I know he's been wanting to do this too).

Try being on top. My boyfriend and I have had anal a few times. I realised that if i'm on top it doesn't hurt as much. It actually felt good because when he went deep it would hit my G-Spot.

Try being on top. My boyfriend and I have had anal a few times. I realised that if i'm on top it doesn't hurt as much. It actually felt good because when he went deep it would hit my G-Spot.

I just did anal with my fiance for the first time last night. we have tried several times over the years and it was hard and VERY painful. I have finally gotten used to finger play in the anus and that helped relax the muscles. start with that for a while to help and dont forget the lube. after last night i realized that trying it for the VERY first time doggy style isnt the best approch because you have less control over the depth and pace of insertion. try reverse cowgirl ( sitting ontop of him with your back facing him) that way you can control the situation as well as avoid the embarrassment of having a painful weird look on your face. It will still hurt at first, after he is in sit still for a few seconds to let the muscles in your anus to relax and stretch. after a little bit of doing that it wont hurt so bad. again LUBE UP!

If she has a big ass,then i think spooning is not an option,i'm tryn first time anal with my gf tomorrow and we will probably try doggy or reversed,but i think reversed is not an option eather because she;s new to this and i'm the one that knows a thing or two,so instead of letting her control it and fail and feel bad,i rather doit and just going in slowly.

Doggy seems to be the "standard" position for anal sex, at least as far as I can tell. My boss has been after me to take it in the ass for a while now. We've been having sex for over a year and he says its time for me to take in the ass. I'm 26 and when I told him I was scared, he smiled and told me it was normal to be scared and told me that although it will hurt, I could take it. Anyway, I was wonder if you think it might be possible to take it standing up, bent over say his desk? I'm 5"9", taller in heels, which he loves for me to wear.

3 finger rule ladies! the 3 finger rule! take it from a gay man, get your bf/husband/partner to play around during foreplay, use some lube, there should be no pain! when he can get one finger in easily and without any muscle tension and you feel relaxed, move on to 2 fingers, then 3 and your ready! never will i let him penetrate me without the 3 finger rule. trust me, it wont hurt if you do it right. after the three fingers you can have sex in any position without any pain. x

My first time doing anal was without lube and I didn't have the chance to do an enema or anything. I shower daily and always clean my intimate areas. There was no smell and no mess! Surprisingly it felt pretty great. Remember ladies and gentlemen, always push (act like you're trying to expel poop) as the object (penis, dildo, finger, etc) is inserted. I had a WAYY better experience once I learned that!

Yes, I whole heartedly agree. Unfortunately, if you are a slightly larger woman or you are just blessed with a big bum like myself, certain positions are just not viable. My husband and I tried spooning the first time we had anal sex, but it just did not work. He is not small, but he just did not have the length to get it into me. So we were forced to do doggie position even though I know it is not ideal, but it at least allowed me to reach back and keep my cheeks open for him. So keep those things in mind when choosing a position.

I 'third' that. I definitely do not want my husband to see my clenched teeth and teary eyes when we are doing it. I let him have anal sex once or twice a year on special occasions like his birthday. For me it is really just best to get on all fours and get him to do what he needs to do, while I think of something else. Luckily he never lasts that long anyway.

i have had had it 2 times now. first it was awful, cause I wasn't relaxed enough. it couldnt get in. last time, i got spanked before, so my bottom was really relaxed cause of the pain...

so 2 pillows unde my hips,a little lub. i as lying on my tummy... first timein, a little painfullso he got quickly out, the once again. it went in easily. did it softly for about 20 mis, and he came. idon't think i cold ave harder thogh. it was pleasurable,but felt likeiwas punished a bit as well. 

myadviceforgirls doing it for thefirst time:  try getting really turned on before, be relaxed, and maby you could try a bit of spaking before. your muscles will relex .  and don't forget some lube or itwill hurt like hell.

The best position for anal sex is standing on your partner facing him.Getting in until the base of his penis and rubbing your clit to his pelvis will create you the sensation to cum!Duh!!Doggy kind of sucks, I can cum that way only if he is keeping his hand on my p***y rubbing constantly.

well tbh to u all first time i had anal when i was drunk he was on top of me n pillow under my stomach n he first start pushing it in but it was hurting n i take control of it n he just stuck in , but he got hug d...second time was today and i was on control we tryed on doggy stly but i couldnt it hurts so i turn on bed with pilloow under my stomach and he was on the top n i was holding him n he push when i said to push n it was all in n it was huting but i was saing to pull it out , but the good thing is he was relaxing me n calming me down holding my hend n relaxing me then i put my leg on side ling and it was much better and i relax more n it didnt hurt that much tbh , but on the end i donno did stay anything on him cos he always leave streight up to bahtroom lol, so better for him not to tell me anyhting cos i would of be so ashamde and not confortable to do it again , so yeh , all is just use baby oil a lot, and seriously i enjoy it a lot cant wait to do it again :D