I just had anal sex with a guy that said I should try the real thing instead of overusing the fake ones. I was on the bottom, it was my first time today. I've used dildos that I have control over the speed and thrust and I love it. However I had to try several positions till I was able to take it all. On my belly with my bottom up in air. Lots of good lube and its all wonderful. It was a
lot of fun. Ill be doing that again as soon as I get
the chance.
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My bf wants to do anal, we tried it once and he just got the tip in and it hurt so bad so i made em take it out. Now a yr later im willing to try again. I know we need lots of lube, but just needed to know which position would help best for less pain? I do have a big butt so im seeing spooning may not be the best. Also is it ok for him to finish in my anus? Or does he need to pull out? Im nervous and have so many questions on how to make this more intimate and pleasurable than painful. Thank u in advance for ur help and opinions.
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Good question, but my advice is to first browse this thread. It has loads of helpful info that has helped me a lot when my husband and I were trying anal sex for the first time. Anyway, I will try to give some advice.
Firstly my first time was very sore too, so do not worry about it too much. Secondly positioning is definitely a major issue. I am quite a large woman with a very sizable bum; so many positions that were recommended were not actually an option in my case. We wanted to use the spoons position for our first time, but really struggled with it. So, we had to resort to doggy, which is quite hard for a woman if it the first time, so it hurt.
So for the second time, I decided to use the reverse cow-girl, as that gave me a lot more control. I really recommend you try it. Just take it slow.
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Try a product called anal ease! It works wonderfully! That with some good lube and you are good to go!
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Defiantly spooning. Use lots of lube, and he has to loosen you up first. I love anal, but you both have to take your time. There is no rushing, unless its like an every other day thing.
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Honestly, even tho I love anal sex, at first it does hurt..... A LOT! My best suggestion woul be spooning and lots of lube. Relaxing is key too. Just breath girl! Once ur comfortable flip to doggy and just let go. Rubbing your clit will help you relax too. Be sure when he goes in he is at a downward angle. You may want to experiment on yourself first with a toy and discover your angles so you can guide too! Good luck... Once you let go I bet u will love it!!!
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I'm a bit new to anal myself but I have done anal quite often in the past few months. The first penetration can be a bit uncomfortable at first. So relaxing and trusting your partner is a big key to success. Lube is a good idea if you are doing it for the first time. Trust me it isn't as bad if you have him play with you a little bit to loosen you up to the idea of penile penetration. We have found that the best position for me and my partner is the spoon. It's all depends on what you're comfortable doing. I hope that helps you out. Good luck! You may find anal is quite pleasurable if done correctly and enjoy it more than you thought.
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This is going to be first anal sex how do I make myself relaxed and which ways to best
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My age 38 just marriage...but my panis size 4" I am not happy & panis health not good plz help me.
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When choosing a first time anal sex position it is important to remember that you will need to stop sex and reapply lube quite a few times when having anal sex. Last time my husband and I had anal sex, I counted that he had to stop 5 times in order to reapply lube as it was getting too uncomfortable. My husband and I only have anal sex in the spoons position primarily for this reason that it is a lot easier to reapply lube mid-sex in the spoons positions without too much of an interruption.
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Yes surely there are all things are only for that purpose for what they have been created not for else.....
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I agree. This is a safe and easy position to use. Easy to control depth of penis so it doesn't hurt. Pull legs up to chest or as far as you can.
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This thread is very informative, I am glad it is still going. I think the previous posters have covered a lot of ground. The three positions that are ideal for anal are the spoons, reverse cowgirl and doggy style. I would just like to add that it also depends on the size of your partner’s penis. I have had anal sex with a few partners and one of those were very well endowed. It required a lot of lube and preparation and I still could not take his whole penis. The only position that worked for us was the spoons and he needed to use very shallow strokes. It was difficult for him to climax and it took a long time for him to finish, hence at the end I was a little sore. I had to keep my hand on his penis during the entire time to stop him from going in too deep. My husband is below average and it is fairly easy for us to have anal sex and I do not feel much discomfort in any positon.
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