if i had sex with a person dec 4th and 5th and than i had sex with my boy friend on the 5th 6th and 7th and 8th. would it be more likely that the father of my baby is my boy friend? i was ovulating on the 9th 10th and 11th. the day that egg was fertilized was the 12th.
Sperm can live 7 days! So either man could be the father! Also how do you know for sure that it was the 12th?
i have gone to my doctors and we had the ultra sound done. and by indication from the system. i concieved on the 12th. i had two doctors insure my date of conception and pregnancy. i am going to talk to my doctor to make sure. i just wonder if there is a way for me to do a blood test right now. he wants to make sure that this is his baby. but all ready by looking at the ultra sound it looks just like him. this baby is growing fast
The only way is to do one whle pregnant is by Chorionic Villus Sampling (CVS)! It CAN be tricky, they insert a cathetar into your vagina through your cervix and suction a sample of tissue from outside the sac! Also there is amneoscentisis! CVS can be done between 8 - 13 weeks! I believe that you will have to pay for this! IF the doctors believe that you indeed did conceive on the 12th it IS more likely that the fther is your boyfriend BUT there is a BUT there! As I stated sperm can live upto 7 days! So you might have to wait or do the CVS!
i had spoke to the doctor and he has confirmed that the father would be my boy friend. due to the fact that by the 5 day from ejaculation. the sperm is dieing and doesn't have enough energy to penetrate the eggs wall. by the 6 and 7th day. all sperm is dead. if there are any still serviving they would need to be healthy enough to penetrate the egg. which is more than unlikely. the more ferteral and alive they are the better chance they have. becuase if you had a bad sperm get in to the egg there would be a lot of problems with the growth of the egg. and it would be a waist of pregnancy. cuasing there to be a miscarriage during the first wk. i just spoke with my doctor.
Like I stated honey! Sperm CAN live upto a maximum of 7 days! And yes they would be dying off each day! 3 days is usully a better thing to go by, BUT it's not always that way! Thus the descrepency when women conceive! Conception happens within 24 hours after the egg is released! So in your case due to the fact that the doctors have stated that your egg was fertilized on the 12th, this means that the egg was released on the 11th! So the posibility of the other guy is STILL a factor because you had sex with both men on the same day! That would give you 6 days - or perhaps 5 days depending on the time right?! So of course it is true that sperm starts dying off totally by 7 days your situation is about 5 or 6 days! Depending on how each man looks this will be your answer! Also know that female Sperm (X) can live longer then boy sperm and are stronger overall! So there are MANY factors invoved with your situation! To me your boyfriend is about 60% the father and the other man 40%! Because they were so close and at one time on the SAME day! The only way is to find out!
Also I haven't talked about the other Elephant in the room! BUT have both men and yourself been tested for STI's/STD's!?
Also I haven't talked about the other Elephant in the room! BUT have both men and yourself been tested for STI's/STD's!?
both men have been tested for std's and of course i have. all my blood work came out good and all interneral organs are great. My red blood cell count is good. the baby is getting good oxygen. from what the doctors say, i am way over normal on red blood cells that i will not become inimic during my whole pregnancy. which is excelent.
we are going to do the dna testing right after the baby is born. my boy friend is AB+ and my x boy friend is A+ and I am a+. My x had his physical done just last wk. so he will be able to bring that with him for the dna testing. the father is afraid to do the dna testing. i told him not to be afraid. becuase he is the one pushing for the dna. plus some doctors have told me that dna testing can take up to 2 wks to get the result back. and i can't delay on giving my baby a name. I do feel confident that this child is my boy friend but for his and my peace of mind we are going to do the dna testing. i just want everything to come out fine. i need to be able to build my nursery.
we are going to do the dna testing right after the baby is born. my boy friend is AB+ and my x boy friend is A+ and I am a+. My x had his physical done just last wk. so he will be able to bring that with him for the dna testing. the father is afraid to do the dna testing. i told him not to be afraid. becuase he is the one pushing for the dna. plus some doctors have told me that dna testing can take up to 2 wks to get the result back. and i can't delay on giving my baby a name. I do feel confident that this child is my boy friend but for his and my peace of mind we are going to do the dna testing. i just want everything to come out fine. i need to be able to build my nursery.
OR you can do the CV! But I always worry about any invasive things - I know it is a LOT safer than Amnio! Also just did some research on the blood type! IF the baby has A+ blood - which it should do! Then unfortunately either man could be the father! As you are A+ and 1 is A+ tooa nd the other is AB+!!!! So that doesn't help either! Do the men have different looks? Even though this isn't a given, you could have the 3D ultrasounds later on and see if there is any similarities!