Why are women so mean to each other? I have recently left a group (creative in nature) and I left because they were very forceful and sometimes adamant with their opinions about my creative process. When I left they were furious, sent nasty emails and also blamed me for leaving and didn't care why I left. No one took responsibility for their actions. This is like high school and I think it happens a lot...has something like this happened to you? Are women mean? Do they send nasty texts, gang up on you?
I know this is old but... I believe that for insecure people this is a primal way to bond. Think of it as a lesser form of gang rape. At its core it’s really a about a group bonding and shaming a common enemy. You have to get them to humanize you. Call them out on it.