(This is speaking long term): Is sex unpleasant if the man is very large? I know that the average woman's vagina is about 6 inches deep, and the man I assume that I'll marry said that he's 8 inches, plus he's big around. Is it going to be more difficult for me to have an orgasm because he doesn't fit in all the way? These are just questions that I'm slightly concerned about. Thanks for replying.
Hey... dont worry..... your vagine will take care of business.... honestly.... the only thing that may cause pain is you worrying about it and beign tense. Just relax and enjoy it.
He's probably exaggerating anyway.
He's probably exaggerating anyway.
first of all, dont worry! believe it or not a woman is able to handle a large penis. remember a child may slide out that opening so your vagina will be able to handle the girth.
secondly, have you actually seen this monster penis that he is describing? chances are he may be exaggerating the dimensions, maybe not but its possible. as for depth of a woman. you have a mouth that you can say no more it hurts! he will listen if he really cares.
secondly, have you actually seen this monster penis that he is describing? chances are he may be exaggerating the dimensions, maybe not but its possible. as for depth of a woman. you have a mouth that you can say no more it hurts! he will listen if he really cares.
These two above posters have given you good responses.
The vagina is elastic. It can swell and stretch to accomodate a wide variety of sizes.
The dimension that he mentions (8 inches) could be an estimate, or measuring from the wrong point, or he might me at his most erect point.
The amount of satisfaction is more associated with attention and patience on the part of the man, rather than if he "fits in all the way". Remember, the man is most sensitive at the head, and about an inch down the shaft. The woman is most sensitive in the first inch of the vagina.
As a result, there are lots of positions, actions and technique that can stimulate one or both of the partners.
If you still have concerns, talk with a pre-mariage counselor about your concerns. They may have a lot more advice.
But again, you're probably worrying over nothing right now. Relax.
The vagina is elastic. It can swell and stretch to accomodate a wide variety of sizes.
The dimension that he mentions (8 inches) could be an estimate, or measuring from the wrong point, or he might me at his most erect point.
The amount of satisfaction is more associated with attention and patience on the part of the man, rather than if he "fits in all the way". Remember, the man is most sensitive at the head, and about an inch down the shaft. The woman is most sensitive in the first inch of the vagina.
As a result, there are lots of positions, actions and technique that can stimulate one or both of the partners.
If you still have concerns, talk with a pre-mariage counselor about your concerns. They may have a lot more advice.
But again, you're probably worrying over nothing right now. Relax.