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Me and my girlfriend tried to have sex but we couldn't because it hurt her too much. so we just tried with a condom rubbing my penis against her vagina. i had a orgasm and as i did, the condom broke and sperm went on her vagina. we straight away wiped it away with dry tissues and i licked her vagina in a outwords fashion after we'd wiped it with a tissue to make sure no sperm had gone in. my girlfriend takes a pill but its not as affective as THE pill. its called dianete. it helps to prevent pregancy but isnt supposed to be used as a contraceptive. this event occured on the 3rd of September. it is now the 6th. my girlfriend has recently got a cold but has had funny pains in her vaginal area. what do you think? should we be worried? thanks for reading... please reply if you can.
The only thing to do at this point is wait it out. If ejaculate spilled on and around her vagina, the chances of it walking into her vagina is slim, but it could happen. By wiping it at, you could have helped push it further into her.
Don't freak just yet. How far along in her cycle was she? In other words, when is she expecting her next period?
Why mess around with the medication that she takes and just go on straight birth control?
If you two had your encounter on the 3rd of september, there is no way that she would be experiencing any pregnancy symptoms yet.

I would say don't sweat it, as i really don't think she could be pregnant, but really consider birth control. Why waste your money doing it the other way when you could be sure that she is protected at least 99% of the time.
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I would add that I suspect her unusual feelings are possibly from all the action (fingering, licking, wiping, and washing) that was going on against her labia and vagina. I would think that within a few days, those sensations will pass, if she was irritated at all by these actions.

bbfeet9,
do you have any suggestion on what she might do to soothe any irritation? I don't have enough experience to answer this. -Thanks. 8-|
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Ooops, ya i should have told her to keep it clean and dry and apply some A and D ointment. A and D does more than help a diaper rash.
And she should probably stay out of the rack* for a few days. 8-|

(*refers to refraining from sex; Avoiding intercourse)
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billtude,

You can reduce the risk of a condom splitting when you climax by allowing some "empty space" at the end of the condom when you unroll it.
Like a deflated balloon awaiting the sperm or semen, a small pocket of space at the end of the condom, by the head of the penis will catch the ejaculation and not stress the laytex.

Some manufacturers make one of these special spaces during the condom's manufacture.... but anyone can allow an extra inch or so by unrolling the condom maybe one roll or so before starting to unroll it over the penis.

Consider this in the future.
Good luck! 8)
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