i was so devistated today to find my son and his nephew naked on the bed and my son was about to penatrate my grandson..my son is 12 and my grandson is 7 i really didnt know what to do. is this normal child behavior or should i be worried?
HELLO, Is your 12 y.o. son through puberty or not yet? Did you notice some body changes like pubes?.. Was your son and the other kid naked or not at all?
if they are doing anal sex then yes you should worry but if they are giving themselves a hand job, leave them do it. It happened to me when i was 10 and my cousin was 15 and he was giving me extreme hand job which i could not hold on at all. So yes it is a typical child behavior. Just don't let them rape each other, just that, they can do everything else...
Penetration?
NO NO NO
Masturbation can be normal if it's mutually agreed to, after all most of us had to learn about it from someone, but penetration is NOT acceptable.
Hi Guest,
Mutual exploration would be normal, even mutual masturbation, but penetration is NOT.
There is the possibility that you son has been sexually abused and is acting out. I strongly suggest that you talk to a counselor.
THIS IS MOM OF 7.....TELL YOUR SON ABOUT THE DANGERS OF ANAL SEX...AND ENCOURAGE HIM TO FIND AN OLDER TEEN GIRLFRIEND....IN THE MEANTIME LET HIM KNOW THAT PLAY WITH NABOY IS OK ,AS LONG AT IT IS SAFE,SUCH AS 69
nothing to worry about...it is very normal for kids to experiment....with each other rubbing ,or oral contact on all the genitals...some time on each other at same time in which case the 12 yr old can orgasm,but the other also has pleasure....boys will be boys.....i know,i am mom of 6 boys !
A 7 year old really shouldn't be active other than looking in my opinion. They are just not ready yet for giving or receiving stimulation. I doubt that the 7 year old initiated this. If they were close in age and just touching, I get that. When I was 11 and my brother was 9, I remember wrapping one of those small plastic snakes around my balls and penis. But neither of us touched each other, I didn't know about sex, and it just felt good. This is totally different.