Soo I haven't gotten my period for 4 weeks now I have taken 3 hpt the first one was a week after I missed my period then I took another a couple days after and like 4 days ago I went to the clinic to get a urine test all were negative but the week I took my first test I was spotting for that day and I was discharging that white stuff and I have been feeling cramps like my periods going to start buy it hasn't today in the morning I felt really bad pinches in my stomach that made me cry and last night I've been feeling vaginal discomfort me and my husband cant have sex so can I be pregnant? Or it might be something else I'm really worried I've been reading stuff about ectopic pregnancy it scares me oh and I've never been on any birth control were trying to conceive any ideas on what's going on?