I can't perform very well anymore. My wife has had sex with other men in the past. I want her to invite an older nice gentlemen for dinner who lost his wife 20 years ago and have sex or oral with him. He told me he has not touched a woman since his wife died. Is this so wrong.
I think its a good idea , as it will spice up your relationship, bring you two together and she will also see that you care about her . Also your friend will be very happy , knowing that you atleast consider and care about him.