I have scheduled an appointment for abortion, at the time of the appointment (which was the soonest I could get), I will be 8 months pregnant. Is that a little too late? What is the common gestational age at which women get their abortion done?
Also, why do men act like we look for drama if we want their support through this process? I really feel like I like to talk more to my guy, but he rather avoids talking to me. He didn't even call me to see how I feel when he suspected that I was pregnant. I know if I try to talk more, he will be very bothered.
Also, why do men act like we look for drama if we want their support through this process? I really feel like I like to talk more to my guy, but he rather avoids talking to me. He didn't even call me to see how I feel when he suspected that I was pregnant. I know if I try to talk more, he will be very bothered.
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Your 8 months or 8 weeks? cause did you tell the doctors how far along you were? I'm not sure if you can get an abortion at that far along?
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I had an abortion at 8 weeks also. That is like one of the earliest stages. I know it's hard, especially when the father of the baby won't let you greif, cause I've been there. It's was like no matter how much I was at the very last string, he didn't care. I know now that it killed him just as much as it killed me. Men just have a funny way of showing it. They don't mean to ingore how you feel about it. They just don't know how to react to some things that most woman can deal with. He might not want to show any kind of emotions to make you change your mind. I'm 21, if your close to my age, or a little younger. It's best this way in the long run for your future. And maybe when you are established in life, you will be ready to raise a child. I know I'm not now, and I wasn't then. I kno thoughts like this ran through my head all the time "I know so many people that have gotten by with less"...it's true, you proably could get by, but is it really the right time? would it be fair on your baby? and fair on your life? I know it sounds a little selfish, but think about how the childs life might turn out in a stuggling enviorment, and how stressed it'll make the rest of your life, cause you'll always be behind if you have a child at a young age when your just starting to get your life set in track. I also thought about adoption, and when I thought twice that was quickly out. I could never move on in my life knowing that my own flesh and blood was out there somewhere without me. And if they ever found me, later in life, married with other children, I would be afraid of resentment towards me. And I can't tell you even now if I've decided what I wanted to do, even after making my desicion to terminate, I still find myself wondering everyday. Thinking about how far along i'd be right now if I decided to keep it, and sometimes I think it would be nice, but honestly, in the situation I'm in, it wouldn't. I'm currently unemployed, no car, I don't have my own place. Nor does the man I got pregnant with. Well, he has a job, but it wouldn't help even two of us. Anyways, sorry bout that, really, I can't tell you what the right desicion is, but I can tell you, that it's something you really really really really...need to think about, hard. Follow ur heart. And think about the future.~Jill
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