i m 20 year old girl, i got bf when i was 18 year, recently i hv started fingering to my vigina, i had done too manny times but before a week while doing it i got pink colur blood on my finger but it was not so painable, it was normal only, even i told it to my bf but he is scolding me a lot even feeling bad for me thtat he wanted to loose it but me only lost it by my self, but i have confused that i lost my virgin layer or no. that time it was not so red in colur it was pink colurd so plz plz plz help me n tel i lost my virgin or no ? even tel me is there any other way to know whether i lost virgin or no? plz plz reply me thanqqqq
Hi Anjali,
You are still a virgin.
There is a possibility that you may have slightly torn your hymen, that does not mean loss of virginity. The light blood you saw could also just be from the trauma of "fingering" yourself. It is likely when you do have sex that there will be more bleeding.
Only a physical exam could tell you if your hymen was intact. But, since it can tear from ordinary activities you won't know if you tore it or not.
You know, in your heart and mind that you are a virgin. Your boyfriend, if he loves you, will accept that.
Good luck.
Your Hymen may be partially torn. However, Virginity is not a physical state of being. For example, sometimes women tear their Hymen in competitave sports. This does not mean that they no longer posess their Virginity. Being a Virgin or not only means that you've had sexual intercourse (penetrative) or not. If you've never had sexual intercourse, you are a virgin no matter the state of your Hymen.
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GET you a looken glass and tray look up your P***Y'S . I' M 21yrs old and know that way don't you . you must be a city girl good luck hope your HY is in there late me know OK girl to girl LOVE... :-) :-)