I too am in the same boat. I'm 24, still a virgin and I too am planning on loosing my virginity within the next 2 weeks. Afterwards my boyfriend said he would take care of me a few days after (until I have to go back to work) I'm very tiny inside and he is fairly wide..length wise he is normal. I'm scared too, but I realized I jsut have to bear it the very first time then after that I should be fine. We are very emotionally connected and our relationship is not entirely based on sex. we have been friends for over 1 year and partners for nearly 3 month and no sex..he has never pressured me.
some help. i love my girlfriend and she is DEFFINITELY a virgin. and i mean i love her alot. its not that i want to have sex with her for the fun of it but i wanna feel close to her. i want her to love me as much as i love her. most guy say sex is just for the sex. am i the only one thinking this way. will she not have sex with me even if were together a LONG time?
Are you 18 years of age or older and have not lost your virginity? Are you “waiting for the right guy”? Or are you with someone who continues to pressure you but you are just too afraid? Maybe you are not afraid of the actual intercourse but you are afraid that once you have sex with that someone special he will leave you because that was all he wanted. Are you ready to have sex but you are worried about being in pain or the bleeding that occurs during the intercourse? Are you ready to experience your first time and just haven’t found someone that will not use you? Do you have a low self esteem and think that the only way you will get attention is by losing your virginity to someone who will not respect you? Or do you feel that you are just not attractive enough to approach someone about the idea of having sex with you? Or maybe you are just worried about not being good enough at the actual intercourse and you want someone to teach you.
There are many reasons why women your age who still have not had intercourse even though you believe that you are ready. There are also many reasons why women should not have intercourse and there are no reasons why women should have intercourse. But if you are ready to lose your virginity and you are having trouble deciding what to do then contact me. Give me a detailed description of your situation and why you are considering to have intercourse for the first time. I may ask you more questions to understand your situation better and then try to help you with your situation.
As for me, I am a 35 year old male who has been listening to women talk about their feelings and relationships my whole life. This must come from being the only one my mom would talk to when my dad divorced her after having two kids. My dad is the one she lost her virginity to while she was a junior in high school and became pregnant with me. So, when the guys were talking about sports, business, and having sex with this girl and that girl. I was listening to the girls talk about, well you know what you girls like to talk about. I have been with many girls, some for the first time and others for their, x-amt, and they are all beautiful in their own way, they all just needed to be heard. I have learned that if a man would pay attention to how a woman felt, what she likes and what she wants, then that woman would be so comfortable with the man she is ready to lose her virginity with that there would be little to no fear. Women need to be heard by a man who will pay attention to how they feel especially when it comes to losing their virginity, and this being the main reason why I have decided to provide this service. I am here to help you feel more comfortable about actually losing your virginity or not losing your virginity, but more importantly feel more comfortable about yourself and this major decision.
If you are interested please contact me at _[removed]_ and I will do my best to help you.
There are many reasons why women your age who still have not had intercourse even though you believe that you are ready. There are also many reasons why women should not have intercourse and there are no reasons why women should have intercourse. But if you are ready to lose your virginity and you are having trouble deciding what to do then contact me. Give me a detailed description of your situation and why you are considering to have intercourse for the first time. I may ask you more questions to understand your situation better and then try to help you with your situation.
As for me, I am a 35 year old male who has been listening to women talk about their feelings and relationships my whole life. This must come from being the only one my mom would talk to when my dad divorced her after having two kids. My dad is the one she lost her virginity to while she was a junior in high school and became pregnant with me. So, when the guys were talking about sports, business, and having sex with this girl and that girl. I was listening to the girls talk about, well you know what you girls like to talk about. I have been with many girls, some for the first time and others for their, x-amt, and they are all beautiful in their own way, they all just needed to be heard. I have learned that if a man would pay attention to how a woman felt, what she likes and what she wants, then that woman would be so comfortable with the man she is ready to lose her virginity with that there would be little to no fear. Women need to be heard by a man who will pay attention to how they feel especially when it comes to losing their virginity, and this being the main reason why I have decided to provide this service. I am here to help you feel more comfortable about actually losing your virginity or not losing your virginity, but more importantly feel more comfortable about yourself and this major decision.
If you are interested please contact me at _[removed]_ and I will do my best to help you.
I am a 30yr old guy and still a virgin. There's nothing in sight, so I wonder whether I will stay like this forever. Girls claim no chemistry all the time, I was never be able to go to a second date even. Of course they always use the lets just be friends line, and I am staying on contact with those who are interesting otherwise. They keep telling me about their jerk boyfriends how they just use them and what a good place would this planet be if all guys were like me. What should I do? I am even good looking, smart and funny, but nothing makes it.
1. get good at something
2. feel good about being good at said thing
3. use that confidence/skill to impress women
4. profit!
think that you are awesome, and you will be awesome.
start off with easier girls. not to get laid, but to learn the social cues that imply levels of attraction. once the girl has revealed a tell, go for the kill. seriously. girls like that kind of initiative. of course if you misread her she will say no and then you move on. no big deal. basically its all about shooting at a target with nice guy on the top, creep on the bottom, and lay in the center. if youre too forward and dont back off all night, she'll think youre a creep, if you dont show initiative you wont score. its all about reading people and reacting accordingly. I find it can be helpful to have a positive first impression and show genuine interest in a girl, then intermittent episodes of a lack thereof. make the lack of interest a switch in company at a party, or interest in something or someone else. trying to play two girls is, by and large, not worth it, plus it can be obnoxious, so if someone else is another girl make it friendly. Its all a strategy game, but you can't make your moves obvious, you gots to be smooth and go with the flow. I'm ten years your junior so I don't know what the thirties social scene is like but I'm sure any advice I've provided carries over.
questions?
2. feel good about being good at said thing
3. use that confidence/skill to impress women
4. profit!
think that you are awesome, and you will be awesome.
start off with easier girls. not to get laid, but to learn the social cues that imply levels of attraction. once the girl has revealed a tell, go for the kill. seriously. girls like that kind of initiative. of course if you misread her she will say no and then you move on. no big deal. basically its all about shooting at a target with nice guy on the top, creep on the bottom, and lay in the center. if youre too forward and dont back off all night, she'll think youre a creep, if you dont show initiative you wont score. its all about reading people and reacting accordingly. I find it can be helpful to have a positive first impression and show genuine interest in a girl, then intermittent episodes of a lack thereof. make the lack of interest a switch in company at a party, or interest in something or someone else. trying to play two girls is, by and large, not worth it, plus it can be obnoxious, so if someone else is another girl make it friendly. Its all a strategy game, but you can't make your moves obvious, you gots to be smooth and go with the flow. I'm ten years your junior so I don't know what the thirties social scene is like but I'm sure any advice I've provided carries over.
questions?
I totally know what you mean... Do you ever feel ok with not losing your virginity but you just worry about one day being super old and worry that you've waisted all your opportunities? I think sex is a huge deal. When ever it comes up I seriously just think about the consequences of being THAT emotionally attached and then being vulnerable if I ever lose them. What if it leads to them being pregnant, am I ready to take on that possibility? Since I haven't lost it yet its like the whole thing has been built up and I feel like maybe I should wait and when the right time comes I will know with out a doubt but then I worry that might be something unrealistic and I've waisting my time. Plus everyone else has lost their virginity by this age and I feel like I can't relate. But yeah I think the opposite sex finds me attractive but when ever the possibility arises its absolutely frightening like it will completely change who I am.
This one is for all the girls questioning weather or not to lose your virginaty. I am sixteen and have come close to losing it before but I like to hold my self to higher standard and I believe that I will know when I am ready and I won't have to ask an Internet site for advice. Also I am a Christian but I understand no one is perfect and we all make mistakes. But your virginAty is something you want to hold on to because you can't just go buy a new one. And if you do make that choice to do it just be safe and be sure you are ready . There are alot of advantages to having sex but also alot of disadvantages. Fooling around such as bjs, fingering ect.. Can be just as fun with out the threat of pregnacy.
Remember, to always put yourself first. Your friends may have lost their virginity but that doesn't mean that you have to. You're unique ( as are they ), so just do YOU first and respect your body. You deserve to be with some one who loves you with all their heart and soul. Someone who is serious about you, because that's what you ( and we as women ) deserve. I'm proud of you for being so young and sticking to your guns. I know this reply is YEARS late and i'm guessing you must be 22/23 years old now :)
But pple said it vry painful nd u most cry out
Shut up u fat virgin. You have no chance and will always be a fat stinky virgin
You might have a disease.