Please, what are the latest treatments for after stage III colorectal surgery? Chemo has been recommended but what really works? We have gotten so ^%$& recomendations that frankly we do not know where to turn any more.

I can not ask my dear husband to suffer chemo for three months to suffer five years of pain and god knows what (possible) years for my selfish needs. I need him and love him with all my heart but can not ask him to live in constant pain to fill my needs.

I can't tell him this because , frankly he would give up tomorrow if I did. I am between the rock and the hard place. I want him forever but how can I ask him to suffer for my needs? I wish to God I can go first.