I am 16 years old and i masterbate about 3 times a week. i am trying to stop because i think that it is harder now when a girl touches my penis for me to get an erection. also i think it is harder to ejaculte when a girl is trying to give me a hand job. if masterbation is the reason for this, can i have tips for avoiding my urges... please!! thanks
Don't be silly. Masterbation does not make it more difficult for you ejactulate when having intimate contact with a girl.
The reason is simple. You know your body better than anyone, so you know what feels good and what touch and stroke will push you over the edge every time. Your girlfriend is a female, who doesn't know what it feels like to have a penis, or necesarrily how best to make you cum. You need to communicate to your partner what you like, what feels good and let her try different techniques to get you off. Don't be afraid to tell her/show her how you like to be touched. She should not be afraid to do the same.
In the meantime, enjoy your masterbation everyone does it. It's perfectly normal and does not in any way inhibit your intimate sexual encounters with others. In fact it should enhance it!
Good Luck
The reason is simple. You know your body better than anyone, so you know what feels good and what touch and stroke will push you over the edge every time. Your girlfriend is a female, who doesn't know what it feels like to have a penis, or necesarrily how best to make you cum. You need to communicate to your partner what you like, what feels good and let her try different techniques to get you off. Don't be afraid to tell her/show her how you like to be touched. She should not be afraid to do the same.
In the meantime, enjoy your masterbation everyone does it. It's perfectly normal and does not in any way inhibit your intimate sexual encounters with others. In fact it should enhance it!
Good Luck
I've masturbated for a while now, and when my girlfriend masturbated me, I had no problem. Like they said, good luck!