can any one help me.....n plz give me ansr seriously...m v tncd n i have decided nt to get married bcz m nt sure that m i a vergin r nt.....i havnt had sex yet...bt prob is ths i did fingering bcz i was missing my b.f.... n aftr that i bleed alot.....idid nt put finger deep just i was vibratng there.....n now sometimes i feel a pce of meat hanging out there in my vagina.....wht is that?????m i nt a vergin plz help me.....n dnt make a fun of me....plzzzzz......
Hi ABC,
Yes, you are still a virgin.
You may have torn part of your hymen, it can happen. It doesn't mean you aren't a virgin. You may still bleed when you have sex.
Hope it helps.
Dear abc - You are a virgin until a penis penetrates your vagina - the 'birth canal'.
However, in some cultures an intact hymen is considered necessary to prove your virginity. Sometimes a bride bleeding on the first coital act is necessary to prove virginity. An intact hymen is often a good indication of virginity, not not necessarily so. Likewise a ruptured hymen is not proof of non-virginity. A hymen can be ruptured by all sorts of sports-like activity, or horse-riding, or cycling. Masturbation can also cause hymen rupture, depending on how you masturbate. Perhaps you could describe how you masturbated more clearly.
Regarding your bleeding, it may be because your finger ruptured, or partially ruptured, your hymen. However you say that you were 'just vibrating there'. Where exactly do you mean by 'there'? Inside your vagina, or on the clitoris? Can you explain a bit more clearly?
You say you can feel a piece of meat hanging out there in your vagina. Can you see it? is it actually 'in' your vagina? It could be part of your hymen, but the hymen covers, or partially covers, the entrance to the vagina. So, can you give a bit more detail? If you have difficulty in seeing, use a mirror to help.
I had some difficulty in fully understanding your post because I didn't understand all the abbreviations (like m v tncd). Also some people refer to their vulva as a vagina. So can you explain what you mean in more detail and without using text language, if you want more help.
I hope this helps. It certainly sounds as though you are still a virgin. You cannot lose your virginity on your own!