AM I PREGNANT?I CANT I AM ONLY 14

scaredbabe i dont think you should listen to any of them im 16 and im pregnant too im kinda scared but im 9 monthes im due tommorow and im really scared i dont listen to any other people except my mom and dad beacause people cant always give that good of advice im just sayin and i never dropped out of school even though im pregnant and i never will people laugh at me yea but i dont care what people think and dont worry ok :-D

I would also go for testing of STDs - you might have an infection judging by your symptoms. Get to a Dr or clinic hun and explain to them what' happened.

Who said a baby must live in poverty? Why is killing an unborn child the only solution? Is adoption just a thing of the past and killing the only "options" that we tell our young people about anymore? I was a pregnant teen and I chose to keep my baby. The childs "father" wanted me to get an abortion, but I would not even consider that possibility for a moment. Had I not wanted the baby, I would have given it up for adoption so he would at least have a chance at life-with or without poverty.

I read through some of the questions asked about having sex at 14 and abortions and unwanted pregnancy, and ask myself the question . . . would I want my 14 year old daughter (if I had one) having sex? Would I abort a baby? Would I put myself at risk by having unprotected sex? I am late in my responce as I only took a peek now but really . . . . I have seen some pretty heavy answers..... you talk so casually about it. I just cant understand, and no, I am not judging. I am 25 yrs old and pregnant with my second baby. I want to urge all the young ladies out there that are having unprotected sex... please think before you do it. Having a child changes your life TOTALLY and I can tell you now that no 14 year old wants that right now. Concentrate on your education, meet Mr Right and then decide for your self. It is not my place to tell you how to live but try to undertand that I am trying to give you a little wake up call. Love yourself enough to take things easier.

ive had an abortion! it was the worst thing i have ever done! i chose not to have my baby because i was scared like this girl and i had no body to discuss the matter to! i would advise this girl NOT to have an aborion! Having an abortion doesnt get rid of the problem... it makes you sad, disgusted and angry with yourself. Its been nearly a year since I had my abortion and everyday I shed a tear because now I know that my family would have stuck by me and I would have loved that baby so much! Im disgusted how people can come on her and tell this girl to have an abortion! You mae her feel more scared and affraid then what she already is! i know... ive been there!!!! and it would help if people gave others more information about these things! I am still young and i am enjoying my life... but its true, many young teenagers dont know the first thing about birth control. if you adults explained things better and made sure teenagers were properly told, things like this wouldnt happen!!!

keep your baby if you want an abortion because you are scared and affraid, and even ifyou boyfriend says he will leave you, you can do it alone! you will love that baby a million times more than what you will ever love him, believe me!!! xxx good luck i wish you all the best! x

>:( i agree no body has the right to tell this girl to get an abortion. She is young yes and for that reason young people should be extremely careful during sex or not have sex at all because there is always that possibility of becoming pregnant. If you don't want to get burned don't play with fire!!!

ok heres my advice. i have a question for you. how long have you been with this guy and do you care a lot about him? i had a similar experience i got married when i was 16. we had sex and after we were done he pulled out and we could not find the condom. i was so scared. it was hanging half way out of me. i realized later you cant get pregnant that way so you should be ok unless the condom breaks which in your case it didnt. and seeing as its your first time it is normal to bleed. and its normal to hurt. it does hurt your first time. after you have sex for the first time it does make you feel sick to your stomach cause you start having all these thoughts. your mind can start playing tricks with you because your stressing about it. stress can cause everything to happen. i dont think your pregnant. but why cant you take a test? its ok you dont need to be scared because being scared can cause stress. and cause your periods to do weird things. even being late. beleave me i know. please just calm down it will be ok. if your period dont start have someone buy a pregnancy test for you if your scared. but just hang in there youll be ok. my best wishes to you.

i had sex with a guy almost a week ago and i'm scared too! we didn't use protection and i don't really know what to do. he's a lot older than me and i have no way to tell my parents. i cant tell my sister cuz she would tell her boyfriend and her boyfriend is really close friends with the person i had sex with. i'm not 100% sure that i'm pregnant right now cuz my period will start in about 2 weeks. i can't get a pregnancy test without telling someone what happened to me! i know you posted this in march, but i want to know what happened to you and i hope you can give me some advice!

am 14 and pregnant and am so scared of being a bad mum, i got rid of my last kid that i fell pregnant too and it was horrible the most horrible thing that ive ever when through. I am now pregnant again and am not getting rid of it but i dont know who the dad is it could be my ex boyfriends or his best friends kid. But none of the possible dads want anything to do with the kid but am going to find out who the dad is when the kid is born am 7 weeks and 5 days pregnant a i cant wait to be a mum and i know that people look there nosys down at young mums but there isnt a perfect age to have a child. some people might think that there life is ending and is over but trust me its not you have a lovely little baby too look after too:) andits i have told my mum and she is really supportive about this she said that there is worse things that come too your door than a baby. I have decided too call it liam for a wee boy or charlie for a wee girl. But i thought that i would just help all them people that dont know what to do too keep the baby or get rid. But if you have your friends and family too help you, evrything should be okay and i dont have a clue what too do with my baby when it comes along but when it does i know that i will there for it every day for the rest of its life and its up too all of yous if you are ready for that responsibility. I am but everyone is diffrerent but if you do keep it make sure you can whatever you can for it and if you decide to get rid of it think long and hard about cause you are not going too get it back this is a really big deal so just do whatever you feel is right and dont let anyone push you into things that you dont want to do for example if you want too keep the baby dont let someone else play mind games with you and make you get rid of it.