Please can somebody help me???
I really don't know if i'm gay or it's just a stupid thing
Everyday when i watch porn its gay porn, i like looking at naked men bulge men people exposing there underwear at school
the problem is that i really hate gay people and don't like all the subjects about it but i can't stand seeing these things
sometimes i imagine myself doing sex with my friends or seeing them naked
i know you think im lying or crazy but what im wsaying is totally true
i have more or less an attitude of a bi but i don't know
please if you read this text make an effort for helping cuse i really don't want to be gay or bi when i grow up. i would like to be a normal man and have a wife and kids the problem is i don't even know if i like girls
PS: you will find this strange but im only 14 years old
Hi Yangvghkl,
You are not gay! You are far from it, it is most natural, normal and lots of men jack off to porn which doesn't make them gay. At your age it is normal for friends to have small circles get together and jack each other off or jack off while being in the same room as one another. Some guys even give each other head and go on to marry the girl around the corner or down the street. The point is, everyone experiments, everyone wonders whether they are straight, bi or gay - it doesn't matter, you are who you are.
You don't know if you even like girls yet? That's OK, you are 14 and have a lifetime to figure that out and when you see the girl that interests you/or find attractive, you'll know and have your answer.
Watching porn is normal, jacking off to porn is normal it's what everyone does. Read posts on here about it, just use the search bar.
Hope this helps
Hello, yanvghkl, you stated ur problem in the above text.. JUST DONT WORRY about it because of ur age in tis age u ll spend time alot with ur BF not wit GF,, so it results u in considering the boys as best which results u in watching gay porn And also you are a guy not a gay mind it//' And in a recently released report it has been repoted that all over the world approxmely to about 20 lacs men are watchng gay porn and also they were gay . iIN that to about 12 lacs men are became gay only aftr marraige,,,,. SO DONT WORRY THERE IS A LONG LIFE WAITING FOR YOU DONT MISS IT AND DONT CONFUSE YOURSELEVES GAY ISSUES CONCENTRATE IN YOUR STUDIES..... I HOPE IT LL BE USEFUL FOR YOU,, :) :)
Thank you everybody for your encouragement. I hope your right!
Hi Qscgy
Part of growing up is discovering your sexuality and you are the only one that will be able to truly answer the question if you are gay or not.
Often the answer is known and the difficulty lies within coming to terms with it.
Your attractions seems to be entirely towards guys so just wondering if the issue is more along the lines of you are not comfortable with your sexuality and are hoping it is something you can change or grow out of.
Often we let what is expected of us by others and what we have been brought up to believe influence how open minded we are.
Your sexuality is something that you can't change and you if not already will soon no if you are gay or not.
You could see if there are any services in your area for LGBT youth and please talk to a counselor if your struggling with this.
Believe me you are not the only young guy going through this their are lots of supports available and please take the time to find services that may help you if you need it.
There are many people here willing to chat with you as well if you join you can private message people after you do a certain number of posts.
Soon enough there will be no doubt about your sexuality and if it turns out that you are straight, gay or bi please do all you can to become comfortable with and accept yourself just as you are.
Your sexuality is just a small part of who you are and in no way will it ever change the things that makes you a hopefully wonderful person.