Okay So me and my EX bf were messing around we were kissing and you know where that led to but when he put he's penis inside me I FELT NOTHING no pain at all and I did not bleed and I didn't feel pleasure at all as in nothing he kept thrusting but nothing he was the only one being pleased , and he's was the only one sweating like hell , and am just laying down in the bed feeling nothing just looking at him while he's sweating and growling and asking me if its feels good but I didn't want to hurst he's feeling so I said " uhuh " haha , but I swear that was my first time as in NO BLOOD NO PAIN AND NO PLEASURE , so I thought to self maybe he's penis wasn't long enough to break it but I did horseback riding but only till I was 12 , so I don't know please explain Do I still have my V card
Nope, no VCard. You had sex so you are no longer a virgin. Your hymen has nothing to do with it. Lots of people don't hurt or bleed the first time. I had horses so my hymen probably broke years earlier. The more important thing is about pleasure. Often the first time isn't that great for girls/women. I remember thinking "is that it? What's all the fuss about?" It usually gets better over time as your sexual responses change. Also, make sure that he gives you lots of pleasuring before having intercourse. You will enjoy it more if you are really turned on before he enters you, especially if you have had an orgasm or two or three before he enters you. Some inexperienced or selfish boys forget about foreplay once the relationship moves to having intercourse. Don't let that happen. That's where a lot of the pleasure is for girls and women. And if he won't pleasure you and make you feel special then find someone loving and caring who will. Of course it works both ways. The wonderful thing about sex in a loving relationship is giving each other incredible pleasure.