I tried anal masturbation today after years of conventional masturbation but I am dissappointed with the results. I got nothing, I inserted my index finger curled inside and put it fully inside and I didnt find anything to arouse me. How do I know if I am touching my prostrate? Even when I was fingering myself my penis didnt stay erect and went back to soft state.One thing is for sure, yesterday night when I put around 1" of my index finger up my anus, I had to sh*t a lot throughout the night, maybe it was something new for my anus.I didnt use any lubricant as I tried it today while showering and lot of water was there. Do I have to move my finger to and fro after inserting it? I tried that too and nothing happened and then I stopped. to avoid any infection in my anus, I had cut my fingernails just before the shower today and cleaned them properly with soap. After I stopped fingering myself, I washed my anus by putting in my finger and trying to clean it while sucking up water inside. Is it safe that I have cleaned up and should not worry?Need tips for anal masurbation.Also, If I do find my prostrate, would fingering myself effect the hole size of my anus or give me problems during sh**ting?One thing is for sure, I now find sh**ting very pleasing after fingering myself.
Please waiting for answers from experts and doctors.
Hey there, hope this helps,
Trim your nails and cuticles. And file sharp edges. Wash your hands with warm water and soap. Use an antiseptic solution to sanitize your hands before trying to stimulate your prostate to cum.
Lubricate your hand with lubricant. If required, lubricate the anus generously before stimulating your prostate.
Lie flat on your back with your legs bent on your knees and your feet resting on the bed. You can also try a different position if you feel more comfortable that way.
Watch some porn as foreplay to get you excited. For pleasure, your rectum’s walls must be relaxed for easy and smooth penetration.
Insert your index finger into your anus until the second knuckle. Don’t try to force too far ahead to avoid damage to the sensitive tissue.
Press forward and backwards as if indicating someone to “come here” with a finger. You should feel a small, hard gland. This is the prostate or G-spot as it is sometimes called.
Massage gently at first and slowly increase the pressure. As you increase pressure, you will stimulate your prostate to cum.
Also, because you are older you could go to a sex store and get an anal stimulator which will be easier than a finger but might not find your prostrate (male g-spot).
Good luck!
Tell me one thing, I have to do nothing with my penis? stimulating my prostrate will make me cum without penis being erected??Isnt water lubrication every time I insert my finger inside enough?I am a right handy but I feel that my left hand has better grip for fingering.
I cannot do this in bedroom, I want to do it in washroom, any bright position to easily do it in washroom?
Well I would think that if you are masturbating that you would be turned on and with an erect penis but with your other hand fondle yourself however you like? Maybe a squatting position would work in the bathroom?
I have actually never tried this and don't think I could be/get turned on by anal masturbation. And I have an autoimmune disease and get bowel issues (probably the main reason for me to stay away from it).
Anyways, I was only trying to help and other than that I am clueless - good luck and hope you don't mind my honesty!
can a guy reply as to how exciting or better prostate masturbation is. No offence to you lizardqueen, you are very helpful but need to know from a guy who has done it as well.i dont like fingering myself. I did it today morning and I already feel weird on my ass lips opening and like I said, I have been sh**ting a lot more than I used to and weird enough sh**ting is giving me a speacial pleasure. can you explan that lizardqueen?
thanks a lot for your reply lizardqueen, you are very nice. I hope I did not do anything to damage my bowel and I took special care of cleanliness as well as like I said, i cut my nails and washed hands properly without fingering.anal masturbation looks like invitation to damaged bowels and tissues and other hygenic issues. what do you say?
lizard queen .. are you a doctor because i see your replies everywhere....
Hope you read my last post - like I said I was only trying to help. Maybe post it again and I won't answer it. Or ask medic-dan, he is pretty knowledgeable and can possibly help you out.
No, I'm just bored at home and I do a lot of googling before I answer questions. I had major foot surgery 4 weeks ago and have to elevate my foot, so hence I am laying down ALL the time with nothing to do and you can only read, watch TV or sleep so much. So I answer questions and will probably really cut down next month as I will be practicing walking again.
please stay and help us here. people take ages to reply here ....
I know it drives me nuts, that's why I like answering other people's posts and a lot of them are absolutely hilarious if you haven't noticed?! Helps pass the time. Although I have to answer really nicely and wish sometimes I could show more of my sarcastic self. Oh well, take my suggestion and get in touch with medic-dan though.
The Prostate Gland ( not prostrate) is located between 3 or 4 inches from the entrance into your rectum (anus). It surrounds the urethra (tube that leads from your bladder to the end of your penis. The easiest way to find it is by probing from inside the rectum toward your penis. I believe you will find it pleasurable if you move your finger (or a 6 to 8 inch dildo) around while it is is inserted deeply enough into your rectum. If you have a sexual partner and they do the insertion, the pleasure will be much more intense. You may want to take an enema before starting, AND USE A LOT OF LUBE INTENDED FOR sexual purposes. The intestines have no natural lubricants, and water is not suitable.