Are These Pregnancy Symptoms?

Me and my boyfriend have been having sex alot!!! Everytime we have sex though we never use a condom!
He told me i should go on birth control but im scared because i dont wanna gain weight! But its sunday...the last time we have had sex was on friday...
When he came he grabbed my hips and pushed in really deep and came inside of me
I have been feelings symptoms for a while though....for like 2 weeks...ive been very nauseated and tired!
But if i wasnt pregnant from all the other unprotected sex that we have been having could i be pregnant now? I'm tearing my hair out soo scared!I talked to my boyfriend about it and he said "NO ABORTIONS! If your pregnant i will be there for you" and im scared he wont be!
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
My tummy is even beginning to become hardened could i be 2-3 weeks pregnant from b4? i see all the signs but im scared to make any assumptions.....please help me...im terrified im only 19 i dont know what to do! ? ? ?

My period was on 12-12-09, which i calculated ovulation to take place on or around the 25th? My husband and I started having unprotected sex on the 26th,him pulling out before he came though. Then on Jan.1st he went in me. My period came early on the 7th and was somewhat different only going through 1 tampon a day... yet still had cramps and everything? However all the whole month of January ive had pregnancy symptoms the big one being my breast hurt the whole month vs the week before my period.EXTREMELY EXHAUSTED,and i stay feeling queasy,and dizzy. Is this in my head or could i still be pregnant....can you get pregnant AFTER ovulation?

yeah it def. sounds like your pegnant.... those are very convincing signs that you are i also had i question relating to the subject/ can someone help me with my case ******************* hello i am 17 and i have a question for everyone involving pregnancy. I was fooling around with my girlfriend 3 days ago (apx. 2 weeks after her last period) i wiped the tip of my penis with my finger (to remove pre-cum) there couldnt have been more than even a drop of pre-cum on my finger, then i fingered her. Also the pre-cum i removed was outside of my body for some time (apx 20min or longer) What are the chances thats shes pregnant? or honestly should i be worried of pregnancy? ******************** My gf also is expecting her period soon hopefuly it comes within the next week or so but get tender when they are about to have there period?/i also heard because after pergnancy there breasts grow but hers hurt to days after fooling around could this take effect that quickly?

My sincerest apologies to all of you! For some reason I didn't get any of these postings!!! But anyways I will try and help you all!

1. Guest 1 - you have obviously received news by now, can you let me know?

2. Guest 2 - I am VERY concerned that you are indeed pregnant! Any time you have unprotected sex, you are playing Russian Roulette, and it is just a matter of time that you WILL become pregnant! What concerns me is 1, you do not have weight gain from the pill, very few women get that 2, you boyfriend is putting you at risk of not only getting pregnant but also getting an STD/STI! Your symtpoms totally match pregnancy, but can also be from an STI or even worry, only time will tell if you are or not! The deeper the penetration the greater chance - because the ejaculate is that much closer to the cervix! You have already stated your doubt about him being there, which means in your heart of hearts you KNOW it! So please STOP this OK? I hope you are not pregnnat! And IF this guy insists on having sex without a condom, make him walk! This is YOUR body, YOUR decision and YOUR future! It will be YOU carrying a baby, YOU having to deal with an STI!, and YOU caring for the baby or YOU having an abortion!!! So it is up to YOU to get some control here and start thinking about your future! And check into BCP's there are hundreds of them! Please let me know if you are or aren't OK? Good luck!

3. Guest 3 - depending on when you ovulated your egg can live for about 5 days and sperm 3, women can ovulate at different times of the month thus hearing of women becoming pregnant during their period! IT sounds like you calculated not really noticing if you ovulated - correct? So I think you could indeed be pregnant! keeping in mind that it takes about 21 days after ovulation/conception for the HCG levels to be high enough to detect! So you can definitely take a test now! Good luck and health and please let me know how you make out!

4. Guy! I answered on another post, but I doubt VERY much she is pregnant! The problem with pregnancy symtpoms is that they are TOTALLY the same as PMS - sore brests etc.! But I will say with 99.999% that she isn't pregnant! Just be more careful from now one OK?

Good luck and health to all of you!

Im 22, married, and think I might be pregnant. Can I get a more experienced opinion?

I had been using Nuvaring but it gave me awful side effects and so I took it out Dec. 29. I got my period Jan. 1-5, and it was normal, heavy, with painful cramps and everything. I few days after my period I had sex without BC. Later, with a condom.

This last week and a half, Ive been sleeping a lot. Like, just watching TV I cant keep myself awake, and I still sleep all night and into the late morning. And, Im actually not very hungry. Im only eating twice a day and not finishing the meals. (no nausea though)

I was suppose to have started my period the 27th but Im only spotting very dark red/brown. Some light cramping instead of my normal killer cramps. I took a nap today too. Ugh. And still feel tired. Light persistent headaches now too.

Is this just my period? I usual have a heavy period, but its so light. Could I be pregnant?

hey. i'm 22 and my bf and i are trying to get pregnant. first time was on jan 1 2010. i started my period on the 3rd it was the lightest, shortest and least painful period of my life, and it was early. (usually i'm doubled over in the fetal position crying and holding a heating pad to my lower abdomen. and it lasts for a week this time it was more like 3 days) we've tried more since then.

now my breasts are sore and i have a strange dull almost cramping in my lower abdomen. i feel sick here and there but never vomit (i've never really been one to vomit) there are other discomforts in my lower region randomly. i'm bloated and my sense of smell has heightened. these aren't like my normal PMS symptoms. and they've been since about the week after we tried.

i've taken 3 test and they all say negative. but these symptoms are not letting up.

did i get pregnant? or am i just wanting it so bad my mind is making me have these symptoms?

hi guys
im kinda scared
first of all im a virgin and i have irregular period and my period is suppose to be between 18 -25 of this month
let me tell you the story of what happened it happened on Thursday night
me and my bf were together i got so close to his penis and i got my orgasm and i guess he got his pre-cum and his penis was so close
so on Sunday i started having all my period signs and i got black spotting for one hour then it all stopped and today Monday i got nothing and i feel nothing
please im so scared i feel like im going to faint my parents are not these kind of people who accept such things they would get me killed

Hi honey! As long as there was NO ejaculate inside your vagina - even in the opening - you are NOT pregnant! Sperm have been known to swim a long ways! BUT that is only IF they are right inside the opening of the vagina! I will give you a quick Biology class and I'm usre it will put your mind at ease OK?

Sperm start dying IMMEDIATELY outside the body! So say your boyfriend had sperm on the tip of his penis - which would be a small amount IF any in precum! And it was JUSt inside your vagina! So they have to swim through that 5/6 inches of vagina with it's own lubrication - that stops invaders - THEN whomever survived that HELL! HAS to get through the MOTHER and that is called the Cervix! The Cervix has it's own gel like lubrication who's only job is to stop invaders from getting in! You might wonder why! It's called "Survival of the Fittest" So IF any one of those sperm even get through this they have to make it to the Fallopian Tube and Hope to hell there is even an egg there - THEN they have to burrow into the egg shell! So the odds are HUGE! Actually to be precise 1 in a Million! Becaue there are million sperm in 1 ejaculate!

This is why the ONLY way to even get pregnant is IF the sperm is done by ejaculate - when the penis lets go of the ejaculte this pressure will push the sperm through the Mother land (Cervix) You didn't have that!! So like I said if there was NO sperm inside you, then you are NOT!! Pregnant

When you are irregular - and a teenager - your periods can be ALL over the place till you're about 19/20, ask ANY woman who is older of her "HORROR STORY" I guarantee you that ALL women have that time when their period came late and unexpected and they were caught off guard! Or EARLY and with such amount that they were embarrassed! :$ It's ALL because of hormones! Your hormones - through puberty are ALL over the place - emotional, zits, PMS, irregular periods etc. This is TOTALLY normal - unfortunately!!! - and just carry protectionw ith you all the time! So just relax hony OK? And be prepared for your "Visitor" and just know that IF you decide to EVER have sex then your partner should ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS wear a condom and NEVER chance it! PLUS get him to ejaculate OUTSIDE the body - this stops any "OOPS"

Also Congratulations on being a virgin! I counsel HUNDREDS of young girls as young as 13 who are pregnant or have an STI! So good for you! Godo luck and health!

me n my boyfriend never use condoms. i bleed really lite on the 5th of march then bleed the same on the 22nd of march it was only for those to days my period should have came on the 17th. my breast are real tender, n i have been feelin sick should i take a test.

Yes I think you should! Due to never using condoms and the lack of menstruation and your breast hurting then I think you are pregnant! Take the test with your first urine in the morning!

hey guys. i'm having a bit of worry here, and i was seriously wondering if you guys could help/reassure me. ok soo, i do have sex(obviously) but, when i do, i always use a condom. and my bf always checks to see if there are any,what he calls ''leaks''. and there never has been. now, im concerned, and it just came out of no where a few days ago. what if i could be pregnant? im about 2 weeks away from my next period, and am seriously considering taking a home pregnancy test early. but the only thing that is bothering me is the fact that maybe im just soo worried that i think i am pregnant that my body starts to feel things ya know? where you think that something could be so you start looking for those feelings and you well fool yourself into thinking you are pregnant. make sense? but the only thing ive been feeling(which i have felt these pains before and i wasn't pregnant and i wasn't on my period either) slight cramps,as if i have a stomach ache. i usually get them the week following my period. but i just want too make sure maybe it isn't something else. and i have no other symptoms , no sore breasts,no constant peeing,no bloating,im not moody. but a few days ago, i did get sick in the morning, BUT i had been only on soft foods and liquids because of a problem with my throat, and that morning i woke up and was starving,like absolutely crazy for some nutrients, so i gobbled down 3 slices of pizza. then i felt nausea, and threw it all up. now i think that its only because i hate too much too fast but once again i want to make sure it isn't something else. i haven't felt nausea in the mornings following yet(and i hope i don't) but today i have been feeling a bit dizzy, now my grandmother thinks its lack of food in me, she says im putting more out of me then in me. could she be right? and what are your thoughts? ive been doing alot of reading up, and i heard that you can get nausea after eating too much too fast. and i also heard that if the condom isnt broken in anyway, theres no chance you can get pregnant. that has helped me a bit but i just want to make sure. so please please help thanks a bunch!

Hi honey! As long as there was no "oops" you are 97% covered from pregnancy! Even though everyone thinks that nausea is the 1st sign of pregnancy it is actually sore breasts, itchy breasts, enlargement and darkening of the aerola, sore hips, groin and back! THEN nausea! What you were originally describing is called "Hysterical Pregnancy" It happens with people - men and women! - who ether REALLY want to be pregnant or are SO worried that they might be! A very dear friend of mine actually put on 2 inches on her waist, and had ALL the symptoms - yet she wasn't pregnant! Also due to the fact that you are 2 weeks away, a HPT will not show anything anyway! Your grandma is right, if you are low on nutrients - you can get nauseous, and dizzy - and then when you do eat a LOT you will vomit it up because your body has been in hybernation and is not used to that sort of overload!

I don't think you are pregnnt honey! In the future tell your BF to ejaculate inside the condom BUT outside the vagina - this will virtually eradicate any chance of becoming pregnant! So start eating healthy and regular - I think your system is starting to show signs of becoming a diabetic! You HAVE to give it enough nutrients for it to function at it's best! Also know this that IF your body is not getting enough nutrients your body goes into hybernation mode and gets rid of what it doesn't need first! And that first thing IS your period! So to add to the stress of thinking you are pregnant your period will stop - because of stress and lack of nutrients! So keep that in mind too OK? Just breathe, relax, and EAT!!! ;-) XD Good luck honey!

omg thank you soo much! but about the back pain, umm. i hurt my back on new years and it started hurting in the same place again like a week and half ago, but my mother syas that sorta thing runs in my family. but , like you said thats a early sign of pregnancy. soo, im just wondering again if thats what the cause is or if its just because it runs in my family. thank you again, your amazing! :-D

Yeah I know!!!! ;-) XD XD 8)

Sore boobs are the biggest thing, when you have a back injury it can raise it's head for any reason and at any time! I truly think you are fine honey! Time will tell - unfortunately - so just hang in there eat normally take it easy, and when you period is due just take a HPT just to be sure! BUT I'm pretty good at this, so I am 97% sure you are NOT pregnant OK? IF you tell yourself that and start to believe it, I bet you will feel better and not have these feelings!

OK thank you soo much again. I've been through these scares before and like you just said. i just relaxed and said i truly doubt i am, and i wasn't. my bf thinks it's because, he's at work and isn't here in person to comfort me,he is away at work, you said what he has said to me that we are sooo careful and we've been through this before and we've had our scares. and i just wanted some more reassurance i guess, thank you soo much. now ive calmed down and I'm getting back to myself again and i now very very much doubt i am. but your post ALL of them have helped me soo very much thank you soo much darling! :-D