Absolutely true as regards the younger. The big one has already entered fully the puberty and shows a desire for privacy. I'm trying to give him some. The only time I've seen his genitals bare lately is during his physical examinations that I regularly attend.
Good that you go with him for the physicals.My question to you is do bathe nude with them?
No, at least in the last 4 - 5 years. We are not nudists family and we live in a standard gender segregated society. I try to educate them in respect in female privacy.
You should not be afraid to show your nude body to your children.
Hi. Thanks for sharing you experiences. By the age of 14-15 he probably might be ejaculating as well. Did it happen while washing his erection?
As a mother of a boy myself I think that it is not apropriate to touch and even less to wash the boy's erection of such age. I think the mother's involvement in her son's bathing should be limited to soaping and rinsing of the hair and washing the back and the hard-to-reach parts of the body. Soaping of the genitals and rinsing should be left to the boy himself. Of course, the mother could perform a delicate visual inspection of the sexual organs while acting in other parts of the body. Only in case of suspicion of any inflammation, disease or deviation from normal development are permissible actions in this area, such as retracting the foreskin or check of the testicles.
This subject seems to bring out a lot of people who experienced mom cleaning or otherwise maintaining her son's penis far into their teen years. Here's what I would expect someone to say long before the boy hit puberty; Sons - "Ya know mom, I think I've got this down pretty well now. If I have any questions, I think I'll know where to find you" Mothers - "I think you should be able to handle this pretty well by yourself from here on out. I'll let you know if I think I need to see how you are coming along."
I'M SURE AT 16 MOM IS GETTING WET OVER DOING IT STILL
As I understand woman slang, "mom is getting wet" means that she is getting very sexually aroused. If she is still cleaning his penis for this reason, I wish I could come up a safe way for her to meet her needs without working out with her son's penis.
At 16, he is about as manly as he will ever be. But he should have become the sole cleaner of his penis a long time ago. It could be that it is a sexual release for him as much as it is for her, but this isn't a good road for them to go down.
If I was a friend there for a sleepover and sat through mom's part of his bathing process, I would have told him, "You know being a 'momma's boy' is bad, don't you? What I just witnessed makes you look like the biggest 'momma's boy' in town. I didn't see anything she did that you couldn't. From here on out, do it yourself."
I wonder if this had happened, mom would offered to clean my penis too, as part of being an equitable host of a sleepover. (I am circumcised, so my penis-cleaning-process is much less involved.) I'd like to think that I would turn her down, but I wonder if I would have thought that I would like to have a woman rubbing my penis, and said, "Sure! You did a great job on your son and mine is easier to clean! Go ahead and give it a good thorough scrubbing!!"
At 16, he is about as manly as he will ever be. But he should have become the sole cleaner of his penis a long time ago. It could be that it is a sexual release for him as much as it is for her, but this isn't a good road for them to go down.
If I was a friend there for a sleepover and sat through mom's part of his bathing process, I would have told him, "You know being a 'momma's boy' is bad, don't you? What I just witnessed makes you look like the biggest 'momma's boy' in town. I didn't see anything she did that you couldn't. From here on out, do it yourself."
I wonder if this had happened, mom would offered to clean my penis too, as part of being an equitable host of a sleepover. (I am circumcised, so my penis-cleaning-process is much less involved.) I'd like to think that I would turn her down, but I wonder if I would have thought that I would like to have a woman rubbing my penis, and said, "Sure! You did a great job on your son and mine is easier to clean! Go ahead and give it a good thorough scrubbing!!"
"probably might be ejaculating"? By 14-15 the overwhelming majority of boys are ejaculating. About the third sentence, if all you are trying to do is clean his penis, the stimulating effect won't be sufficient to cause him to ejaculate, unless ejaculating is so new to him that his penis is on a "hair trigger", and even then, I would suspect that mom was being more rigorous and thorough than she had to be.