My boyfriend was fingering me. We normally do this since I'm not ready for sex yet. But today was different. He was pushing it a little deeper than normal and it felt amazing. But right before my climax, I felt something rip and I just cried out in pain. My boyfriend started freaking out because I was bleeding a lot. I couldn't move for a while, but after a few minutes I forced myself to go to the bathroom and clean the blood.
I tried to urinate while I was in the bathroom, but there was a sharp, stinging pain from the area I felt a "rip" in. When I tried to wash myself, it hurt immensely while I was trying to open my vagina. I'm worried that there's a cut and it might get infected..
Was this pain just my hymen being broken (because he's fingered me multiple times before, and this is the first time I felt pain) or did he cut me inside my vagina? Should I be putting ointment (Neosporin) around the area that I feel pain in?
What do I do? Is it serious? :(
DON'T WORRY! me and my boyfriend had this problem and i had a massive panic attack, but it was only the fact that he had ripped my Hymen, which is normally broekn the first time you have sex. It does involve a lot of blood, much more than i thought it wood, but don't worry! I continued to bleed for several days but i am fine now! if you continually bleed for more than a few days i suggest doing something about it, maybe visit the doctor, but for now don't panic :)
No..I have never had sex before. My boyfriend and I were just playing around; he was just fingering me at the time. And I'm pretty sure that my Hymen was already broken since I've been doing martial arts for over 10 years.
I just checked today, and the bleeding had lessened, but there is still a burning, stinging feeling whenever I urinate. I was able to check myself and I saw a scrape.
Should I be putting some kind of antibiotic ( like Neosporin) on it? Or should I just let it heal naturally? Would it get infected since I'm constantly urinating and the open wound is being touched my by urine?
I just checked today, and the bleeding had lessened, but there is still a burning, stinging feeling whenever I urinate. I was able to check myself and I saw a scrape.
Should I be putting some kind of antibiotic ( like Neosporin) on it? Or should I just let it heal naturally? Would it get infected since I'm constantly urinating and the open wound is being touched my by urine?