Every time my fiance fingers me, i bleed during and after but it never lasts that long only till the morning time! I was just checked my obgyn about 4 months ago and everything was fine! So i dont get it. When we have intercourse there is no bleeding and all through this there is no pain! Anyone know what could be wrong?
There are several things this could be, but let your OBGYN be your guide.
First, is your partner being too rough? You don't indicate so, but I have to ask. Are you becoming numb to the stimulation?
Second, are you using lube? Trust me, it'll feel so much better if you are.
Third, are your partner's fingers clean, with well trimmed nails? It took me a long time to catch on that my gal could feel my fingernails much more intently that I could when they were long. (Guys, a word to the wise: Trim them and file them so there's no ragged edges anywhere, at least a day before you plan on having sex. The love life you save may be your own!)
Fourth, is this a hymen issue? Has yours torn? Is it gone? Is there a remnant that is bleeding? An exam is in order.
Finally, if the bleeding is internal, it may be the remains of your period, or the start of it... but another trip to the OBGYN to ask, along with your regular visit would be indicated here.
First, is your partner being too rough? You don't indicate so, but I have to ask. Are you becoming numb to the stimulation?
Second, are you using lube? Trust me, it'll feel so much better if you are.
Third, are your partner's fingers clean, with well trimmed nails? It took me a long time to catch on that my gal could feel my fingernails much more intently that I could when they were long. (Guys, a word to the wise: Trim them and file them so there's no ragged edges anywhere, at least a day before you plan on having sex. The love life you save may be your own!)
Fourth, is this a hymen issue? Has yours torn? Is it gone? Is there a remnant that is bleeding? An exam is in order.
Finally, if the bleeding is internal, it may be the remains of your period, or the start of it... but another trip to the OBGYN to ask, along with your regular visit would be indicated here.