Then, when I got home, I noticed two blood splotches on my panties and I thought for sure that my hymen had been broken... But now I'm not so sure because (this is the morning after) and loads of blood is still coming out. My period is in fact due around this time but not for another day or two and it's bleeding heavily and it didn't start bleeding all day until my boyfriend fingered me. Was something triggered to make my period come early?
Also, this morning, the cramps are UNBEARABLE! o.O Thank goodness for midol :-P But the cramps are waaaaaay worse than usual. (Kenosha had a blizzard so we didn't have to go to school today which is a good thing because the cramps are immobilizing) And nausea came with the symptoms. Also, because of the blizzard, my brother and I had to shovel and we were helping neighbors and all in all, we were shoveling for 5 hours two days ago o.O so my back is already sore but the pain was increased ten fold. I've taken two midol for teens and the cramps feel much better but I don't think I have anymore so is there anything else I can do to relieve the pain? It really is terrible. Any info or suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated. Thanks all :-)
Honey,
The short of it is:
1) Only a doctor will be able to tell if your hymen is broken, however many young girls experience this without even having sex. A hymen can be broken by a fall, riding a bike, etc.
2) Having intercourse whether with fingers, penis, sex toys, etc. will generally trigger your period if you are close to starting anyway. If you are not close to starting and experience significant blood then you should certainly see a doctor.
3) The pain level of cramps is like a see-saw. Sometimes the pain will be down and sometimes the pain will be up. However, seeing as this is the part of your life when you are choosing to experiment with different forms of sex, and especially if you have never been to a 'female' doctor, you should make the responsible choice to make an appointment with a gynecologist. Yea, it is sort of uncomfortable the first time because you have a stranger looking at your lady parts, but it would be responsible to you, your health, and any sexual partners that you choose to be with in the future.