I am in a new months long relationship with my boyfriend. We’re both recently out of long term relationships. I have gotten into the habit of squeezing my vaginal muscles during sex with past partners and I’ve always gotten very positive responses as guys love it! I also would squirt with my ex so I can squeeze in and out and have really strong kegel muscles because of it. My new guy doesn’t like it. He says I’m breaking him in half or I’m pushing him out. I’ve been trying to not do it or at least not full strength but sometimes I can’t help it and he loses his erection. He doesn’t usually have a completely full erection-close but not quite due to health issues. Our age is low 40’s. I can’t exactly say well other guys love it! I don’t need to do it it’s just a long ingrained habit-although it feels good to me too. And I will probably keep squirting when masturbating so don’t see my muscle tone changing much. Any advice on how to talk to him about it or what I can do differently? It’s harder for me to enjoy sex too because I’m focusing on not clenching. Help!