About 2 months ago my boyfriend and I had an abortion. It was really hard on both of us but we supported each other the best we could through it. It’s been 2 months now and we have not had sex a single time. My sex drive is back to normal now and I find myself wanting to be intimate with him every single day multiple times a day. I have tried to talk to him about how I feel many times. He said he has no interest right now because of the abortion but not because he’s afraid he’ll get me pregnant. I understand, but at the same time I have needs that need to be met. We had an amazing sex life before the abortion and to go from 100 to zero is really hard. Will he ever be comfortable having sex with me again? Do I respect him and wait? Do I masturbate until than to fulfill my needs? What if masturbation isn’t enough for me? I miss the close connection of love and passion we used to have. I don’t know what to do to help him feel better and move forward.