breaking of hymen

DearManisha

1. What was the date of your last period start?
2. What is your normal cycle length (typically 28 days)?
3. What sexual activity did you have before his penis penetrated you?
4. Where are you from?

my last period started on 28th august.i have 30 days cycle,and we had just foreplay.

So you were potentially a long way from your period. It was probably in a fertile time, so there would be a risk of pregnancy if you were unprotected.
It is possible that the bleed was your hymen rupturing. Or maybe he damaged you on penetration, or before. That is why I asked about prior sexual activity - "just foreplay" is rather too general; I was hoping for detail of what sort of foreplay.
It could be that at 14 your hymen was partially ruptured, and if it were thick, would still bleed, but if his penis were small, there might have been some vestiges of your hymen left which has partially healed. Your recent sex, particularly if he were larger, could have torn the scarred membrane.
I hope this helps a bit, but you will have to give more detailled information if you want more help.

if my hymen was partially broken when i was 14 then why was i bleedng for 5 days?actualy during the foreplay he was stretchng my legs apart in diff angles and i was nt letng him do that.his penis is large or it cn b said as normal.so plz reply soon.

I would really have to know far more about exactly what you did and how you did it, and the nature of your anatomy, to be able to give more definitive help.

The result of your 1st intercourse at 14 would depend on the constitution of your hymen, the size of his penis, how lubricated you were, and how you were positioned.&c.

It could also be that you had a period at that time. You were young and maybe your periods were irregular, or the impact of first sex advanced your period.

• How long before that time were you sexually involved (mutual masturbation maybe)?
• How much had you masturbated before that time?

It sounds as though your recent activity was not so much fore-play as fore-fight! I am concerned that he was so rough with you.

• Do you think the fact "he was stretchng my legs apart in diff angles" suggests he is not a good bf to have, especially as "i was nt letng him do that"?

It sounds as though he might have damaged you apart from just the hymen.

• Are you still sore?
• You say "his penis is large or it cn b said as normal", but what size is it?
• Have you examined yourself to see what has happened?
• Where do you live?

You need to take care of yourself and maybe have some medical attention. Your bf does not seem to be very nice!

I hope this helps a bit more. I wait to hear from you again.

No no u r getting it wrong.he is a nice guy.the prblm is wid me,i become very nervous whn he starts puting his penis near my vagina becoz my previous sex experiences have been very painful.so whn he tries to insert i place my thighs close to each othr.whn i lost my virginity i was far away from my period.he usd condom for sex so there was enough lubrication.he penis was of normal at that time and he was lying above me during sex. my vagina was not sore whn i had my last sex,just blood was oozng out and nw it has stopd.so plz just clarify my doubt that did my hymen break again?and thanks for ur cncern bt i m fine,so plz reply soon

No,no.when i lost my virginity,i far away frm my periods.bf usd cndm so thr was enough lubrication.yes we had enough foreplay and he had fingered me before insertn.his penis was of normal size at that time and after sex my vagina was very sore and i was in a lot of pain. My bf is a nice guy.he was not at fault,i was.when he was trying to insert i was very nervous and moved a lot and was not steady in a position and was puting my thighs together whn he was bringng his penis near my vagina.so plz just clarify it to me that did my hymen break again or it was somethng else?thanks for ur concern bt i m fine and the bleeding has stopd and i did not feel pain when my bf was insertng.just bleeding start sudnly.so plz reply soon.waiting for ur response....

Dear Manisha,

I am glad your bf is a nice guy. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I am glad you are not sore now.

I am trying to help, but you are not answering all my questions. I need the answers to help me understand what you are experiencing. If I were with you, I could examine you and talk to you, and so have a better idea, but I obviously cannot. I have to rely on what you tell me. I am not a doctor, but even a doctor would have to find out what happened!

What do you mean by "my previous sex experiences have been very painful"?

• Is this the same bf now that you had sex with when 14?
• Do you really want to have sex with your bf? Or do you feel you ought to, but would rather not?

Regarding whether you hymen broke again or not, I think the bleeding may have been because over the last 6 years some healing may have taken place, and further rupturing has occurred. But I cannot be sure without you answering my questions fully. So please answer (in private if you prefer). I'll repeat the previously unanswered questions:

• How long before that time were you sexually involved (mutual masturbation maybe)?
• You say "his penis is large or it cn b said as normal", but what size is it?
• Have you examined yourself to see what has happened?
• Where do you live?

I would like to think you are OK, but I want to be more assured by knowing some answers.

 

 

yes he is the same bf i had whn i was 14.i want to have sex with him.no i did not have mutual masterbation.his penis is may be of 6 in length and is thick .yes i have examind myself.

If you did not have mutual masturbation, then you may not have been sufficiently aroused and lubricated, so penetration would be difficult, especially as he has a thick penis. It is probably much bigger than when he was 14. So the combination of a thick penis and lack of your lubrication and arousal probably contributed to the further rupturing of your hymen.

Having examined yourself, what have you discovered?

i examind that at the mouth my vagina was covered with blood and nthng else.so basically my hymen broke again.thanks for the help.it was nice sharing my prblm wid u.

I am glad I could help.
Take care