Hi, i really need some advice on how to hndle a situation with my 14 year old brother.
About a week or so ago i was in his room looking to borrow his headphones and i noticed a pile of clothes on the floor where he had just dumped them but what shocked me was that there was a pair of womens panties i guess he had been wearing them under his jeans.
I now i should'nt have but i had a look through his drawers and hidden at the back were more panties plus two of my old bras that i had thrown out a while ago some make up and a denim skirt.
Now i dont really mind if he likes to wear these things although i hope he has'nt been taking my stuff but i dont know what i should do.
We are pretty close and have been through a lot together and to be honest i am a little upset that he hasnt felt he could come to me with this. I am scared that i might have made him this way as when we were youger i would always persuade him to play with me and that would often involve dressing up. Last new years eve my friend and i dressed him for a fancy dress party as a girl and i wonder if that has caused this.
I dont know what to do i dont like it being a secret and i dont really mind, do you think i should tell my mum or tell him that i know and it is ok and if so how do i bring it up?