Hi qwertyuiop,
My name is Max and I have a twin brother named Jason. I wish I could tell you how to parent this. Me and my brother were "curious" so we started experimenting with each other at around age 9 or 10. We were afraid to talk to our parents about how we were feeling because we thought that they might not understand or get mad at us. We were never caught but we did eventually end up telling them last year when we turned 16 together. Our parents looked at each other like they thought we were joking so we sat down with them and told them. Honestly, it was not easy because we felt like they would get mad at us and separate us, but in actuality, they told us that they understood how we were feeling and that we should have talked to them about it. If your twins aren't able to talk to you, give them some time, occasionally hint at relationships or something but keep an eye on them. Our parents weren't ok with it at first but they just wanted us to be happy. Currently, I am dating Jason: my twin brother and we have our parent's support. If your twins want to be together, I'm not going to say how to parent them but if you show that you're ok with it then maybe in time they will figure out the rest. It all comes down to how the situation is handled. I hope you can get this situation handled.
It's more like what you should not do. And that is not to scold them or make them feel like they were doing anything wrong which would cause them shame. I raised two boys myself and we had a very open household, in other words it wasn't unusual for my two boys only be wearing underwear in the house and even sometimes they could get naked if they wanted to and they would go swimming in the pool. When I began puberty and started getting directions I gave them long talks and one thing I told them was that when it came to masturbating, it was completely natural and nothing to feel shame about. I know that my boys window will shower together they also had a tendency to fondle each other and masturbate each other. But I did not panic about it because it is natural and when brothers are very close is just okay that they feel free to pleasure each other.
Hi just lrt them get on with it it's natural there young they'll likely get fed up doing it and move on