I had a red bumb on my groin area and it was hurting, i saw two very close together hairs sticking out of it so i pulled them out with tweezers. They came out very easily but didn't feel too great. That was yesterday. Today it is a big white pimple looking bump and it hurts and i cant pop it. I do have sex but neither of us have any disease. I need a quick reply
I am not a doctor but it sounds like it could be Herpes. You two should get tested. It can sometimes go undetected for a while. I do not know how long you two have been together. Also, condoms is not enough to prevent transmission. But they do recommend no sex while you are presenting.