a) do you like the guy and does he like you
b) do you want him sexually and does he want you sexually
c) do you understand about STDs, pregnancy and how to protect yourself against those things?
d) if the answers to all those are a resounding YES then go with the idea of having fun and enjoying yourselves. Find a nice place that gives you privacy and NEVER make it public and NEVER discuss this with friends because as you know society will react in a way that will destroy everything and will drive you to feel miserable, depressed and hopeless.
Sex is not a bad thing. Unfortunately society and the law has taken away what is yours and brought in punitive laws that are destructive.
Good luck.
why would it hurt? Geez masturbation gives pleasure. Sex is fun and filled with gratification and pleasure. It is the best feeling and the sensations you derive are exquisite. Start masturbating by thinking of something sexual and then start rubbing your clitoris.
Who has been telling you it hurts?? this is misinformation and so wrong.
If you don't want to rub your clit then get your boyfriend to suck on your clit and to give you oral sex. That is awesome. Also such things will bring you guys closer. I hope the guy knows how to pleasure a girl. Guys can be very awkward too and just want to f**k. Get him to make you orgasm and to eat you out and better still to use his tongue on your clitoris and to suck it when you get turned on. The orgasms are so intense and powerful. It is amazing.
It’s classed as statutory rape if an under age person is participating with someone who is either 4 years older than you or is over the age of 16 in sex I don’t know why that’s just the law I guess because the adult should be in a better mental state and to know what is right or wrong.
Guys all of you don't understand one thing. When you like/love someone, that instinct will triumph over any law. The law doesn't mean anything when 2 people have made up their minds to be with each other. It does not matter if one is much younger than the other.
No one checks age differences before being attracted to another. Attraction is just that. It happens suddenly, without warning and you don't look at silly things like age.
Just because there is a law does not mean that people are going to follow the law religiously. Relationships are being driven underground just because of the law. Making something illegal wont stop 2 people having a relationship, even if there is a huge age difference and the younger individual is below the so called artificial age of consent.
Everyone keeps bringing in the same thing over and over again and again. The law is irrelevant to those wanting to be in a relationship. I know many girls who have chosen much older bfs even when they were as young as 13. They have had a thriving relationship with the older guy and are now old enough not to worry about their relationship and the law.
This law needs to be changed to keep up with the times. I know many young girls who hate being with guys their own age. They don't find the same maturity in those same age guys and prefer to be with older more mature secure guys.
There is NOTHING right or wrong in a relationship between a much older guy and a much younger girl. Yes there may be a law BUT those who wish and choose to be with an older partner will do so at any cost and will find ways and means to make that relationship continue. That is what true love is. You will break any barrier, climb any mountain, surmount any hurdles and attempt to make the relationship work out.
I believe that the law should stop trying to control peoples lives where relationships are involved.
I agree with holding & kissing, but its always nice to get naked with him so he can fondle my tits & finger my vagina. Plus, when I jerk him there is NO sperm yet. So next week I'm going to let him put his penis in my vagina.
no one gives a flying f**k for the law.
who gives a damn for that statutory rape thing. That rule is so f****d up.
I am a girl and will do what I believe is okay for me. The law has no business in this.
I cummed at age 11 I'm a girl an I didn't hit puberty until 12