my hubby ask to try anal i didn't want to but i did for him it didn't work out well i was in a lot of pain and bleed so we stop we use lots of lube but still it hurt i don't know if my I.B.S is why i mean just taking a sh*t is pain full for me be cuz of my I.B.S after that he just said no big dell it just is not for us i guess well its been a year now hes been asking again and when we are having sex he try's to finger my ass i want to do this for him but i don't want to be in pain HELP
You need to stand strong against your husband and tell him that it's going to be physically impossible for you to ahve sex with him because of your IBS< pure and simple. If he wants to have anal sex, it is out of the question. Can you say tha tto him?
I have IBS and use anal masturbation without difficulties. If my stomach is upset, I will forgo the anal to another time. You may check with a gastroenterologist to insure you do not have Crohn's Disease. They are similar in symptoms. IBS is usually controlled by a over the counter medicine called Loperamide. It is a 2mg capsule or pill that one takes at bedtime. Works good for me. Have your husband go to your doctor with you so he understands what is going on in your body. You are not a spittoon for sperm! The gastro can treat you for IBS as well. Every 5 years I have to take a colonoscopy to insure that: 1. I do not have Crohn's, 2. I do not have colon cancer. A good physician to have around.