Hello. I am only 20 years old & I recently lost my virginity so I am not to educated about all this sex stuff so sorry if this question is dumb. Almost 2 weeks ago, my boyfriend (now ex) had "dry sex" naked. When he "came" or "ejaculated" whatever you want to call it, it was on his stomach since I was on top. He knew I did not want to have sex because of the consequences and so he thought it would be funny to "poke" me near my vagina. I know women have become pregnant from pre-cum since guys do not know when it happens. I do take my birth control pills at the same time everyday and I never missed a pill. I also took Plan B, since I stress about every little thing, and my period is always every 28 days and now I am late. My main question is, what is the chance of me becoming pregnant and in the future what can I do to be safer? Please no rude comments, just want a respectful helpful answer. Thanks for taking your time to read this
The birth control is pretty failsafe as long as you take it properly. And with emergency contraception as well you are likely not pregnant. But the emergency contraception can muck up your periods. If you are concerned do a home test. if you are going to use the birth control pill you need to trust it as it is not good for your body to be using emergency contraception all the time because you are panicky. And also not good for your sex life and relationships if you are too scared to have arc despite using reliable contraception. If you have concerns about how well it works speak to your doctor or pharmacist. I used the pill for over 20 years and only fell pregnant when I chose to stop taking it so I could have a baby. Also, if you are not in a committed relationship anymore use condoms before you have had "the talk' and possibly mutual STD tests. Not as good as contraception, but you can use the pill too, but helps protect against STDs. all the best