Hi. I’m 16 y/o and my boyfriend and I have been fooling around recently. There’s been two times (one in June, and once last night) that he has had condoms, and we used them. I understand that every hymen is different and it’s going to hurt, but last night it hurt worse than it did in June. Last night he was right on it but he didn’t go any further because he saw how much it was hurting me. He has told me so many times that we don’t have to do it until IM ready. That it’s my decision. We have been together for over a year and I feel like I’m ready to lose it. To him. Is there any way that I can maybe keep it from hurting?
Hi panda,
Do you have lots of foreplay first and are you relaxed or do you tense up as he goes to enter you?