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So I am after asking her if it was the outer or inner labia and she said it was inner. She also said that she was pretty wet down there. I'm guessing this probably raises the risk of her getting pregnant more than I thought before, however is the risk still "likely" or "highly unlikely"? Also to further determine the probability, I asked her a little more about her period history and she said she's FAIRLY regular, and that it's usually once a month ROUGHLY around the same time each month so I'm guessing it's around 30 day cycle maybe? However she did say that once in a while it shifts and she gets it later or earlier.
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Hey, I was just wondering if skin to skin grinding(by this i mean penis to vagina), could this have any effect on if she is pregnant or not we did it on Dec. 18th & on Dec. 27th her period was going to start on the 27th but started late on the 31st, I know i urinated both days and didn’t ejaculate that day or near her vagina. We both know that there was no penetration involved, but I know precum can contain small amounts of sperm so i was just wondering what happened?
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  1. "she was pretty wet down there ... this probably raises the risk of her getting pregnant" That would be true if it were at a fertile time.
  2. "is the risk still 'likely' or 'highly unlikely'?" Highly unlikely
  3. "she's FAIRLY regular ... usually ... around the same time each month so I'm guessing it's around 30 day cycle" Probably. There or thereabouts. That would indicate that 27th was almost certainly not a fertile day.
  4. "once in a while it shifts and she gets it later or earlier" Months vary. 7 month have 31 days, 4 months have only 30 days, and 1 month has 28/29 days, So even with a regular cycle periods would start on the same day every month,

It is extremely unlikely she would be pregnant. I would expect her period to start in the next day or two.

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  1. The fact she had her period would indicate she is probably not pregnant.
  2. "wondering if skin to skin grinding (by this I mean penis to vagina)" Do you mean 'vagina' or 'vulva' (or what)? Her vagina is the birth canal, and if your penis tip made contact with her vaginal opening, then pre-cum could have entereed her vagina (which would presumably be wet).
  3. "we did it on Dec.18th & on Dec. 27th" If her period "started ... on the 31st" then 18th probably wasn't (& 27th most certainly wasn't) a fertile day.
  4. What do you mean by "her period was going to start on the 27th"? How do you know (or reckon) it was going to start on 27th?
  5. "I know I urinated both days" Before or after your sexual encounter? Urination would clean the urethra of any residual semen that might otherwise mix with pre-cum.
  6. "didn’t ejaculate that day or near her vagina" I am not sure what you mean exactly. If you didn't ejaculate that day (which day?) you couldn't ejaculate near her vagina (or near anything!)
  7. "there was no penetration involved" Penetration by penis or fingers? Penetration isn't necessary as sperm near the vaginal opening can swim in.
  8. "precum can contain small amounts of sperm" It certainly can. Some research has indicated that some men always have sperm in their pre-cum.

I hope this helps a bit. I think she is not pregnant, but you do have to be careful

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2) The vulva
5) Before the encounter
6) Sorry, I meant to say that I didn’t ejaculate before the sexual actions on both days, but did urinate before the sexual actions both days. All semen ended up on me the 18th and on the 27th a lot ended up on me and some on her hand, but after that she washed with soap for a good two minutes and that’s when all stopped.
7) Penetration by fingers which had dried precum and I wiped them off on the floor and blanket near us.
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If she doesn't get it within the next few days should I be worried? I got her the morning after pill the next day (29th) but it only works in preventing ovulation so if ovulation has already happened then it would've been useless. I heard this pill may delay the period. Also she had exams earlier on the month so she might've been stressed out and I know she got more into excercise this past month and all these can delay the period. So should I be worried if the period doesn't start soon?
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I am losing track of which person I am talking to as you haven't used a 'name'. If ovulation had taken place between 27th & 28th the EC (you hadn't mentioned before!) on 29th (which is 2 days after 27th) would not have prevented ovulation but may have prevented fertilisation or maybe implantation. However as 27th was not a likely a fertile day, it would not matter. But it would likely affect the timing of her next period. I would not think she would get pregnant, but a test 3 weeks after would be reliable (27th + 21days)
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Thanks for all the help, she got her period a few days ago, I'm guessing it's safe to presume everything's ok now?
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Yes, it is.
Pleased to help
Take care
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I'm just wondering, if the "event" happened on the 28th and the period came on the 4th, then that was enough time to prevent the period if she had been pregnant? I'm just confused cause I heard if the semen entered the girl very close to her period then she might still have her period as usual, but I'm guessing this isn't the case here since it was around 7 days later and that amount of time had been enough to prevent a period?
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I am not sure what you mean by "enough time to prevent the period if she had been pregnant". You state she had her period on 4th, so nothing "prevented" it.

In the normal course of events, a period comes about 14 days after ovulation when the woman has not become pregnant. Her period is the discharge of her womb's preparation for pregnancy.

If her period naturally started on 4th Jan, it would suggest that ovulation occurred on 21st Dec, and so sperm entering her vagina on 28th would not encounter an egg to fertilise.

If EC were involved, then that pill might prevent ovulation and induce a "hormonal period" at an unforeseeable time. If sperm entered her vagina several days before a period starts, and there had been another ovulation in that month, then it is just possible that an egg could be fertilised, but would probably find it difficult to implant in an ill-prepared womb. If it entered very close to the period-start, and the cycle were very short, it could just be possible that an egg released during the period could get fertilised.

However, you'll need to recap the "event", the actual dates involved, and her period history & forecast due date. Anonymous posts are hard to keep track of, and I respond to a number of similar cases. So far as I can recall & review, "events" have happened on the 27th, and you refer to 28th.

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My boyfriend was teasing me today w a condum on (anal) but it kept slipping to my p***y but everytime it would slip he would take it out fast , I’m scared that from all the friction the condum could have ripped or had a small hole , is there any risk of pregnancy at all? From him accidentally slipping it in my p***y it wouldint to in deep all the way just on lips but from behind not front like my body posture was on knees but kinda laying down cuz it was on truck passenger seat pls help I’m thinking of getting pill just in case it did rip even tho we never done the real thing
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Btw I’m on my period probably last day today ,
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There was no sperm involved till very end , but I’m pretty sure there was Precum involved and last time he cum was wensday night , I got told the Precum may have very little sperm but that’s enough to get u pregnant my question here is , should I take the morning after pill even tho we didint have sex , but because of the risk of a ripped condum and leaked Precum or not idk I’m getting stressed all worked up and worried , my bf says I’m fine but idk I’m a very unlucky person.
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If you are still on your period (day 5?) and you have a typical 28-day cycle, it is unlikely it was a fertile time, so there would be no risk of pregnancy. But you have given no period history or cycle data. If the condom were ripped, then you would likely have seen semen leaking through the condom at the 'very end'. Taking an EC pill seems quite unnecessary, and it would disrupt your menstrual cycle.
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