Hey so my bf& I (female) have been dating for about 4 years. I still, till this day have NOT been able to climax during sex (although he does at LEAST twice). Ive tried relaxing nd everything. He refuses to allow me to stimulate myself to help climax, cus "he wants to do it on his own" alsomy bfchanges postions a lot bcus he gets overly "excited". Every time I get close he ejaculates nd becomes sore. Wht do I do ?
Do you climax when you masturbate on your own?
It sounds like he's the problem. If he's unwilling to work with you he's not showing much regard for your pleasure.
Changing positions a lot doesn't help you at all. Interrupting the flow is a real downer.
Having a penis banging around inside does not do a lot for many girls. Most girls need a lot of foreplay and they get most of their pleasure from the foreplay. Tell him to forget about his penis and start working on giving you the orgasms he will enjoy doing for you by working on the outside parts.
Or, after 4 years and he hasn't figured it out yet maybe it's time for a new bf.
I can cum easily on my own with no problem but I tell him its bcus I need more foreplay, to be aroused longer. But hes a horn dog and dsnt last that long. We used to last hours now it will only last 45 minutes. Is it because we do it about 3-4 times a week?
Yes I do
Please help me
I think you have answered you own question there, you need more foreplay to be able to climax.
Your just have to tell him its not just about his needs and if he won't listen then I'm afraid I agree with njoynlife and its time for a new bf that cares about your needs to.
Your just have to tell him its not just about his needs and if he won't listen then I'm afraid I agree with njoynlife and its time for a new bf that cares about your needs to.