I've been sexually active for 10 months now, and I'm having sex almost every day several times a day but I can't feel myself cumming although I see the white liquid afterwards and I've never reached a climax during intercourse or masturbating although while stimulating my clit I do get a nice feeling but only lasts for 3-4 seconds. My boyfriend complains about that as if he cant please me. Thing is I am the one who keeps asking for sex cause my body asks for it all the time. During sex im really wet in the beginning and with no foreplay but After a while i start to hurt and i get so dry even with lubricant so I have to stop. What's wrong with my body ? I'd really like to have sex and really enjoy it and most importantly show my guy hes doing a great job
Hey Grace,
Welcome to the wonderful world of female problems. The only thing is you are WAY too young to be feeling this already.
You may not know but over half the female population has probably never had a real orgasm, it is very hard to do. Most females are lying to you, the whole term, "I faked an orgasm" fits in here. We do not 'come' like guys - mostly we feel ours in waves.
Now, have you heard the term G-spot? That is inside the vagina, around a 1" - 2" inside the vaginal wall, this is the ticket for making females squirt, the liquid 'come' of females. You do need to or your bf needs to stimulate this roughly in order to make you squirt, the inside of the vagina is actually made to be roughened up, which is why some females like it like this.
So, if you are really wanting to please him, learn how to squirt and get him to do it afterwards because doing it once is a gaurantee of being able to do it again. Until that happens, you may need to fake a orgasm. Believe me sweetie, almost EVERY female whether they want to admit it has faked an orgasm before and it won't be the last for you to do either.
Welcome to the club!