have you tried viagra?
I don't think at such a young age they need viagra. Medicine is not always the way to go. If your body is pulling you back then that means you are not mentally ready. Don't rush sex it is a won derful thing. And trust me your gf will thank you in the long run.
I hope this helps me out. I am 15 and i was with my girl and we were makeing out and rubbin and things. Then she tells m to grab the condom, i open it and then my woody is gone. So then we tryed for like 15 mins to get it hard again but nothing helped. And we are going to try again soon, so hopefully remaining calm and relaxed will help me.
hey im 17 n exprienced getting soft right before sex for the first time...i guessed anxiety about not having a condom but shes on birth control so thats not it...then i thought of an old ex who was pregnant with my baby...she drank heavily and she said she killed the baby on purpus, im not sure if that had anything to do with it. anyone got a straight answer?
ok so i have the same problem yh but like we tried doing it twise and nothing happens and then when we stop and do nothing and talk about it or she starts talking dirty or something its f*****g gets hard for no reason im like wtf man get hard when i want to have sex not when i dont want to :S. so i dont know what the hell is wrong with me i eat normal food dont drink dont smoke play football im fit :S so i dont know realy what to do :-( need help?
i just today had the same problem, after the girl left i was really worried that there was something seriously wrong with me so i started looking on the internet, we were messing around on my bed and she was on top of me and touching me and stuff and i was hard, and then she told me she wanted to have sex and then i started to not be hard anymore it was more like half way hard, and this happend with my last girlfriend too, i dont know what is wrong can someone help me out and maybe explain this more to me ? if so you can email me, ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** private e-mails not allowed **
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thx for the help it annoys me , dissapoints my partner but i feel much better now :-)
OKAY. It looks like no one understand an underlying problem at the root of this all. Yes some of you may be suffering from anxiety about the situation, but i guarantee to you that the problem would have never started if masturbation had never come into play. I am pretty confident that every male on this board has masturbated, and has fantasies or can easily pleasure themselves. The problem is, as much as you may be exciting and willing in the moment, when it comes down to it, your body is not receiving the same feelings that would get you going on your own. I can tell you this, if you quit masturbating altogether, or at the LEAST bi-monthly or so, the problem will root itself out, because even if it was not your original problem and you do have a medical problem, imagine not being touched in any sexual way for two months and then you tried to have sex. Would it not make sense that you would be all over it like a jack-rabbit? Quit masturbating, and after about two weeks you WILL notice a change.
Hey,I'm 15 and me and my girlfriend of 8 months have tried to have sex twice now but for some reason every time I can't get it up.... Like when we make out or anything else I'm fine and I can keep a hard on but for some reason I can't keep it when I'm about to have sex.... I'm feeling pretty bad because I feel like I'm letting her down:( idk what I'm suppost todo... Were both vigins and this is the first time I've never been able to get it up/keep it up. If someone could post some tips/advice that'd be great! Thanks.
Yeah, I've been having the same problem. Me and my gf will be so in to it. Shes ready to give it up. It will be mine and her first time. But whenver we get ready to do anything, that includes bj, hand job, or sex , i get soft. Even when were feelin on each other ill get soft sometimes and then it might come back. But im pretty sure its not erectile disfunction. i mean im only 16 years old.
hi guys! im a 23 year old guy and ive been with my amazing gf for 8 months now! at the start the sex was non stop every night with no problems. the problems started bout a month ago. id b rock hard durin the fore play but jst before sex id start 2 go soft. i love my gf and want sex with her all the time. its jst not bin possible. theres always a voice in the back of my head sayin what if it happens again! any advice wud be gratefully recieved!!!
ok me and my gf hav had sex a couple times but this has just had happened and i dont have any of thos problems iv tried everything an i no i dont worry about my performince or anything and its never happened before
Ive got a doozy here i need some help. Me and my gf have been dating for 9 months now and have always had great sex. But when i was 9 yrs old i had some gay sex with a few dudes then went back to the ladies. Im no homo, maybe i was, but no longer. Well lately ive been thinking about this alot and it stresses me out from thinking about it, and it makes me go flacid. If you have any suggestions. I havnt told her about my past... Should i, or would she leave me?
hey im 20 years old and just got this problem for the first time ever I've had a lot of sex in my short life but this last time i could not get hard at all. I was with my new found f*&% buddy and the first time we did i was pretty hard but not as hard as i could be still had no problem getting it in and finishing but this last time i could not get hard at all and was too soft to penetrate her and was wondering if this could maybe because i know she is a little s*** and hooks up with like three different guys a week? i mean that is definitely not a turn on could it just be that i stopped being attracted to her after i found out what a little s*** she was? (i didnt know she was like that b4 the first time we did it)
im 16 and i just had sex today and it kinda sucked because i was really hard when we were making out and touching each other but when we went down for business...i stoped getting hard and it worried me...i think it is because ill been masturbating to much a doctor told me that i shuld stop for a while and my erection will bee the same as back then...and that also to relax erection is all in your mind so ya should try that.