I am a 16 year old boy, I am well into puberty (pubes, broken voice, armpit hair) and I can't reach an orgasm or ejaculate through masturbation. The weird thing is that I have had numerous wet dreams, so I don't know what is the problem. Occasionally when I try, I start masturbating, get an erection, but do not get any pleasure! So in the end I just give up. What is the problem? I have tried a few techniques (none of them work) so could it be a psychological problem? I really have no idea. Also does this mean that I won't be able to reach a climax during sex? Any ideas or answers would be great thanks!
Hi Greenman,
First off, you can orgasm and ejaculate. The wet dreams are proof. That tends to rule out any physical problem.
Not every guy can orgasm using the traditional up-down method. Some guys "hump" things. Whatever works for you is what is important. There is also the possibility that you just aren't going long enough. Do you reach a point where you feel you need to urinate and stop? Sometimes you'll get that feeling before you ejaculate.
Yes, it could also be psychological. Do you feel "dirty" when you masturbate?
What happens when you do try? Do you feel anything?
First off, you can orgasm and ejaculate. The wet dreams are proof. That tends to rule out any physical problem.
Not every guy can orgasm using the traditional up-down method. Some guys "hump" things. Whatever works for you is what is important. There is also the possibility that you just aren't going long enough. Do you reach a point where you feel you need to urinate and stop? Sometimes you'll get that feeling before you ejaculate.
Yes, it could also be psychological. Do you feel "dirty" when you masturbate?
What happens when you do try? Do you feel anything?
when i try masturbating i guess getting a boner feels good, but i when i do get a full erection and continue i literally dont feel any pleasure! i would get the same feeling moving my hand up and down my finger! so i just get bored after a couple of mins and stop.
Greenman,
It can take longer than a few minutes to ejaculate. Try something different, use some lube and maybe try different positions.
Everybody is different. You will find something that works for you.
It can take longer than a few minutes to ejaculate. Try something different, use some lube and maybe try different positions.
Everybody is different. You will find something that works for you.
I had the same proplem so I started to maturbate in publick places. Like whenever i'm in the back of the school buss i mastrbate. I got gooooooooooooooooood orgasms and I ejaculated for the first tim in my life now this is my dayly ruteen durring the school months. Try it, it works.
The same with me i'm now 18 and I have been masturbateing on the buss sence I was 11 because I started at 5.
I had the same problem, but you are able too. At least, I had to spend 1hr+ to get one. But, later it becomes quicker!
Maybe try using some internet porn, but be aware viruses are very common
What do I do if I can cum at 16 and I have tried everything but not sex
Holy c**p, after intensive research on the internet, I found someone else like me, I'm also 16 and I've also only ever produced semen in wet dreams but I can't do it in ejaculation.
I have the same issues, is there anything u found that worked
Same, now that ur 17, can u now?
Yes I can orgasm in 7 inch on hard
Can you cum?