I am a twenty three year old straight female. I have been sexually active since I was seventeen.
I have never been able to orgasm. With a partner, by myself, or with the aid of vibrators. Neither with clitoral stimulation.
Sex has never given me much pleasure. I did not masturbate until I was nineteen. Not because I thought it was wrong, but because I never felt the need. It honestly never occured to me. I was never sexually actracted to anyone. Male or female.
Using a vibrator seems to help me the most, though it only gets me so far. It gives me intense pleasure for a small amount of time. I always feel like Im close to something, but it always goes away, and I cant get it to come back. No matter how long I try. Sometimes I seem to urinate when before it goes away, but it is never accompanied by more intense pleasure. Trust me, I've been trying this for a long long time.
I do get sexual urges, but dont necessarily want to have sex( Probably because it never gets me anywhere). At this point, Im very frustrated.
I have never been sexually assaulted, or molested, or had any sort of negative sexual experience. I dont have pain during intercourse.
I cant find any other questions like mine online.I feel like there is something wrong with me. The more information I try to get, the more confused I get.
Im not depressed. Im not stressed. Nothing seems to fir. It dosnt make sense at all.
I have never been able to orgasm. With a partner, by myself, or with the aid of vibrators. Neither with clitoral stimulation.
Sex has never given me much pleasure. I did not masturbate until I was nineteen. Not because I thought it was wrong, but because I never felt the need. It honestly never occured to me. I was never sexually actracted to anyone. Male or female.
Using a vibrator seems to help me the most, though it only gets me so far. It gives me intense pleasure for a small amount of time. I always feel like Im close to something, but it always goes away, and I cant get it to come back. No matter how long I try. Sometimes I seem to urinate when before it goes away, but it is never accompanied by more intense pleasure. Trust me, I've been trying this for a long long time.
I do get sexual urges, but dont necessarily want to have sex( Probably because it never gets me anywhere). At this point, Im very frustrated.
I have never been sexually assaulted, or molested, or had any sort of negative sexual experience. I dont have pain during intercourse.
I cant find any other questions like mine online.I feel like there is something wrong with me. The more information I try to get, the more confused I get.
Im not depressed. Im not stressed. Nothing seems to fir. It dosnt make sense at all.
You just might not be sensitive enough to orgasm at all...you could try being massaged by him and a long foreplay session along with oral.
Just don't get frustrated over this and let your mind make the sex as enjoyable as you can.
Just don't get frustrated over this and let your mind make the sex as enjoyable as you can.
i kinda have the same problem..except im 19 years old. i dont know what an orgasm fees like so i dont know whawt to ..idk expect? my husband wants me to tell him when i get off..but i cant because i dont really know if i do or not..and a friend of mine told me that if i dont know how it feels then i have probably never had one..
i enjoy sex and sexual activities.. but it just seems to kind of lead up to something...and then ti stops ..but i expect more? idk. if you have leard anything please help me outol sorry i coudnt help you
You should start t have sex more often or try to maturbate in publick paces where you could get cought easely. Thats what I tryed and I got a good orgasm.
I'm the exact same way. I feely bf is becoming uninterested because we have so much sex for so long in every position and angle. Feels good but not enough to send me over the top of to cum. I feel inadequet because I can't give him what he wants. He's always saying cum for me and I just can't. I've tried relaxing, we've fore played, everything you name it, we've done and nothing. Would a Dr be able to help?